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The Myth of the Charmed Life

Let’s talk about the myth of the “charmed life.”

Over the years, I’ve heard things like:

“You’re so lucky to have lived and worked all over the world.”
“Must be nice to travel so much.”
“It just seems like things come easily for you.”

But most of it wasn’t luck, aside from the early gift of being born into a supportive family that valued education.

The rest came from asking, applying, showing up, and adapting.

At 25, I landed in Tokyo without a job. I found work teaching English and stayed for a year. Later, I taught in France, Albania, and India.

Then I moved to Dubai to work for a startup. I quickly sensed that the company was on shaky ground and began quietly interviewing for other jobs. While I was on vacation, I received an email that the company was shutting down effective immediately.

Because I had seen it coming, I was able to transition quickly into a new role in the aluminum industry, also in Dubai. That job turned out to be a much better fit, and I stayed there for the next four years.

After my years working abroad, I spent a decade in corporate America. And now I live with my family in Spain and work for myself, designing custom travel experiences for others.

None of that was luck. It was the result of a series of choices over time.

Still, I have seen how often people confuse visible outcomes with the effort behind them.

Once, for instance, I asked to move into a plum window desk space that had sat empty for months. My manager said yes, so I moved. Soon after, I heard someone on the team say, “She always gets what she wants.”

But the difference was not favoritism. It was just that I asked.

At another job, a colleague assumed I had fewer assignments and complained to our manager. The manager later told me she had explained that I had actually completed more work. I just worked faster.

So much of what looks like ease is really a combination of initiative, resilience, and a willingness to tolerate uncertainty.

I live in a small village in Spain now. Most expats in our area prefer to be closer to the sea. We love the coast too, but we chose an inland village about 30 minutes from the water because the homes were more affordable.

We bought a modest house outright, and renovated it. That choice gives us the freedom to travel more.

It wasn't luck. It was a series of deliberate choices.

I share this because many people quietly build intentional lives and then get called lucky for the results.

To anyone who has been underestimated or misjudged:

Keep going. Apply. Ask for what you want. Say yes to the risk and take the leap.

It is not luck.
It is you.

Active Iceland: 6 Days of Wild Adventure from Reykjavík

Day 1: Arrival, Blue Lagoon & Reykjavik

First stop after landing in Iceland: a soak in the otherworldly Blue Lagoon

After landing at Keflavík International Airport in the early morning, begin your Icelandic journey with a visit to the Blue Lagoon, just a short drive from the airport. This iconic geothermal spa is famous for its milky blue waters, rich in silica and minerals that nourish the skin and ease travel fatigue. With luggage storage and optional early check-in spa packages, it’s the perfect stop to relax and reset before heading into the city.

Why I recommend it

The Blue Lagoon is ideally located for a seamless transition from air travel to immersion in Iceland’s natural beauty. Soaking in warm, mineral-rich waters surrounded by lava fields is a memorable way to begin your trip, especially after an overnight flight.

Insider tips

• Book in advance and choose a Comfort or Premium pass for added perks like robes, masks, and drinks.

• Bring flip-flops and a reusable water bottle.

• Use the provided conditioner liberally. Blue Lagoon water can be tough on hair.

After your soak and lunch at the Blue Lagoon Café or restaurant, transfer to your hotel in Reykjavík. Spend the afternoon exploring the city at a gentle pace: Stroll the harbor, check out local design shops and galleries, and stop for coffee or an early dinner. If you have the energy, take in sunset views from Hallgrímskirkja Church or walk along the waterfront to the Sun Voyager sculpture.

Note: Keep this first day easy and restorative. It sets the tone for the adventure-packed days to come.

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Day 2: Inside the volcano at Þríhnúkagígur's magma chamber

Descending into the heart of a dormant volcano—only in Iceland

Today’s adventure takes you inside the Earth, quite literally. Just outside Reykjavik is Þríhnúkagígur, the only place in the world where you can descend into a volcano’s actual magma chamber. After a scenic 45-minute hike across a lava field, you’ll arrive at base camp and take an open cable lift 400 feet down into the vast, colorful cavern that once held molten lava. The scale, silence, and surreal beauty of the space make it a truly unforgettable experience.

Why I recommend it

This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to explore something completely unique. The chance to stand inside a volcano is rare, and the proximity to Reykjavik makes it surprisingly easy to include.

Insider tips

• Dress warmly. The temperature inside the chamber stays at around 6°C (43°F) year-round.

• Wear sturdy hiking shoes. The trail to the crater crosses uneven lava terrain.

• Look for the arctic fox family near the hut at base camp. They are often seen before or after the tour.

• A hearty Icelandic soup is served at the hut after your descent. It is simple but delicious, especially after the hike.

• Tours are limited and weather-dependent, so it is best to book early and keep some flexibility in your schedule.

Note: Restrooms are available at base camp. Be prepared for wind and rapidly changing weather during the hike.

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Day 3: Snorkel or dive between continents at the Silfra fissure, Þingvellir National Park

Drifting between tectonic plates in the crystal-clear waters of Silfra—a surreal underwater experience unique to Iceland

Today, you’ll travel to Þingvellir National Park, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, where you can snorkel or scuba dive between two tectonic plates. The Silfra fissure is a glacial spring formed by the separation of the North American and Eurasian plates, filled with some of the clearest fresh water in the world. Visibility can exceed 100 meters, and the experience of floating through this deep-blue underwater canyon is both peaceful and surreal.

Why I recommend it

There is nowhere else in the world where you can drift between two continents in crystal-clear water. Whether you choose to snorkel or dive, it’s a bucket list experience that combines geology, adventure, and pure natural beauty.

Insider tips

• Dry suits are provided to keep you warm in the cold water, which stays at around 2–4°C (36–39°F) year-round.

• No diving experience is necessary for snorkeling, but divers must have a dry suit certification.

• Bring a change of clothes and warm layers.

• Book with an outfitter that includes transfers from Reykjavik, unless you plan to rent a car.

Note: Þingvellir is also historically significant as the site of Iceland’s first parliament. If time allows, take a short walk to explore the rift valley and the scenic Öxarárfoss waterfall before or after your water adventure.

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Day 4: Puffins & RIB whale-watching on Reykjavík harbor

Puffins nest along Iceland’s coastal cliffs each summer. They are a colorful highlight of seasonal RIB tours from Reykjavik.

Start your morning with a high-speed RIB (rigid inflatable boat) tour from Reykjavik Harbor for an up-close encounter with Iceland’s incredible marine life. Depending on the season, you may see whales, dolphins, porpoises, puffins, and a variety of seabirds. These small, agile boats allow you to cover more ground and get closer to the action than traditional whale-watching tours, making for a thrilling and personal wildlife experience.

Why I recommend it

This tour combines the excitement of speed and open water with the quiet awe of seeing marine animals in their natural habitat. Leaving right from Reykjavik makes it incredibly convenient, and the smaller group size gives it a more intimate, adventurous feel.

Insider tips

• Dress warmly with layers and windproof outerwear. Waterproof suits are usually provided, but it’s good to bring gloves and a hat.

• Bring a good camera or binoculars if you want close-up views of puffins or whales.

• Puffins are typically seen from May to mid-August, so plan accordingly if they’re on your list.

• Tours may be rescheduled due to weather, so build in a little flexibility.

Note: This is a great half-day activity, leaving you free in the afternoon to enjoy more of Reykjavik. There are lots of great little cafés by the harbor.

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Day 5: Horseback riding across lava fields

Riding through lava fields on Icelandic horses is a peaceful way to experience the raw beauty just outside Reykjavik.

Today, saddle up for a ride through mossy lava fields just outside Reykjavik, led by expert guides and friendly Icelandic horses. These compact, sure-footed horses are known for their unique tölt gait and calm, approachable nature. You don’t need any prior riding experience to enjoy this outing. It’s a peaceful, scenic way to connect with the land.

Why I recommend it

Riding an Icelandic horse is a memorable and authentic experience. The landscapes are striking, and the horses themselves are part of Icelandic heritage, having remained a pure breed for over 1,000 years. This outing offers a slower, quieter way to take in Iceland’s natural beauty.

Insider tips

• Helmets and rain gear are usually provided.

• Most stables offer beginner-friendly routes, but longer rides are available for more experienced riders.

• Bring a small snack or water bottle to keep in your jacket pocket.

Note: This is a great mid-trip activity that is active but not overly strenuous, and ideal for relaxing into the rhythm of Icelandic life. In the afternoon, enjoy a free few hours to explore Reykjavik’s cafés, bookstores, or waterfront paths.

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Day 6: ATV adventure & the Sky Lagoon

An unforgettable ride across Iceland’s black lava fields— wild, windy, and absolutely worth it

Begin your final day with an exhilarating ATV tour through black-sand beaches and lava ridges just outside Reykjavik. These guided rides are a thrilling way to experience Iceland’s dramatic terrain up close, with sweeping views and the satisfying crunch of volcanic soil under your tires.

After the ride, return to the city and spend your final afternoon at the Sky Lagoon, a modern oceanside geothermal spa just minutes from downtown. Its infinity-edge pool, lava rock design, and seven-step bathing ritual create a peaceful, immersive experience that leaves you feeling renewed and ready for the journey home.

Why I recommend it

This day is a perfect balance of action and restoration. The ATV tour gives you one last adventure, and the Sky Lagoon offers space to reflect and recharge before departure.

Insider tips

• ATV tours provide gear, but bring gloves and clothes you don’t mind getting dusty.

• The seven-step ritual at the Sky Lagoon includes a cold plunge and steam room. Take your time with each part.

• Book the Sky Pass for private changing rooms and upgraded amenities.

The Sky Lagoon is a wonderful final stop before heading to the airport. It's close to Reykjavik and a relaxing way to wrap up your Iceland experience.

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Need to know

• This itinerary is ideal from June through August, when the days are long, roads are clear, and puffins are in season. This is also peak travel season in Iceland, so it’s important to book flights, hotels, and key excursions in advance.

• Just know that you won’t see the Northern Lights in summer. From late May through early August, the midnight sun keeps the skies too bright for aurora viewing. If seeing the Northern Lights is on your list, you’ll want to plan a separate trip between late September and early April.

• Food can be pricey in Iceland, especially at sit-down restaurants. For a more affordable and casual option, try Reykjavik’s excellent burger joints, noodle bars, or bakeries. Iceland is also famous for its hotdogs, which are inexpensive, tasty, and widely available.

• Book key experiences early. Activities like the volcano descent, Silfra snorkeling, and Sky Lagoon fill up fast, especially in summer.

• Tap water is some of the best in the world. Bring a reusable bottle and skip buying bottled water.

• Pack swimwear even if you’re not a spa person. Hot springs and geothermal pools are a big part of Icelandic culture and a great way to relax after active days.

• No rental car is needed. With Reykjavik as your base and guided tours offering hotel pickup, it’s easy to see and do a lot without driving.

• Shops and restaurants close early. Reykjavík has a laid-back pace—don’t expect late-night dining or shopping.

• Iceland uses standard European outlets (Type C/F, 220V). Bring an adapter if you’re coming from North America or other regions.

What the Titan Sub Disaster Reveals About Risk and Adventure Travel

The OceanGate Titan disaster was more than adventure travel gone wrong. It was a clear case of leadership failure.

Before founding Niveus Travel, I spent years in leadership development. I helped executives foster clarity, accountability, and resilience in high-stakes environments.

That lens hasn’t disappeared just because I now work in travel.

When I watched the Netflix documentary about the Titan submersible, I saw more than a doomed expedition. I saw a leader so consumed by his vision of reaching the Titanic that he dismissed expert warnings, discouraged disagreement, and treated criticism as betrayal.

The result was catastrophic.

Leadership failure doesn’t always end in disaster at the bottom of the ocean. But the patterns are familiar:

• Prioritizing ego over expertise
• Confusing boldness with recklessness
• Creating cultures where no one feels safe saying "no"

Now I design journeys to wild places: the Arctic, the Andes, and other edges of the map. But I do it in partnership with people who deeply understand the terrain and respect its limits.

I believe in bold travel. But not in silencing experts or romanticizing danger.

Adventure travel should expand your perspective, not ignore the risks. How we travel matters as much as where we go.

Bull Culture in Spain: A Glimpse into Village Life in Valencia

If you’ve spent any time in Spain, you’ve likely heard about bullfighting—or maybe seen dramatic footage of the encierros, or bull runs, where crowds sprint ahead of charging bulls through narrow streets. While the spotlight often falls on cities like Madrid or Pamplona, the true heart of bull culture beats strongest in the villages. That’s especially true here in the Valencian Community, where we live.

Our village, nestled in the hills of Valencia, has about 3,000 people. But for ten days every year, it transforms into something else entirely. The main streets are loaded with dirt—truckloads of it—creating a soft, dusty track for the bulls to run on. Metal barricades go up. The plaza buzzes with energy. The schedule? Built almost entirely around one thing: bulls.

Bulls in the Streets, and at the Heart of It All

In our village’s annual festival, bulls aren’t just a side attraction. They are the main event. Every day features multiple bull activities: morning, afternoon, and evening. The most iconic are the bull runs, where young men line the barricaded streets, hoping to touch—or at least dodge—the charging bull. The energy is electric: part thrill, part tradition, and very much a rite of passage.

At night, things get even more intense. Bulls with flaming torches attached to their horns, known as toro embolado, are released into the streets. These events are controversial. Truthfully, they make me uncomfortable too. But here, they’re met with cheering crowds and pulsing music. The bull, likely terrified, charges through the night as flames flicker above its head.

Children and Tradition: A Complicated Inheritance

There are child-focused bull events too, which I imagine are designed to pass the tradition to the next generation. One of the most popular happens at night. A young guy races through the streets with a wheelbarrow shaped like a bull’s head, complete with flaming horns, while children run screaming and laughing through the blocks. Our 10-year-old son loves this part of the festival. He joins the chase gleefully, shrieking with excitement as the fiery "bull" careens through the village.

As a parent, I have mixed feelings. I love that he’s immersed in our village’s culture and feels at home here. But I also watch him dart around corners with a wheelbarrow bull, its real flames blazing from the horns, charging straight at him and all these other kids. It doesn’t feel entirely safe, because it isn’t.

That said, I’ve never heard of any kids getting hurt during these events. And coming from the U.S., where playgrounds are padded, risk is minimized, and childhood is often carefully managed, there’s a part of me that appreciates how these Spanish kids are raised with a bit more grit. They’re not being protected from every bump and scare, and there’s something refreshing about that.

When they’re not dodging the flaming bull, the kids are usually busy lighting firecrackers around the village—which seems at least as risky to me as the flaming wheelbarrow. It’s all wild and a little unhinged, but somehow they all seem to survive it pretty unscathed.

The stakes change, though, when the adults take over. The real risk lies with the bull runs. Ambulances are stationed nearby for a reason. Across the region—throughout Valencia and Catalonia—someone is seriously injured every year, and sometimes people die. These aren’t isolated incidents. It’s part of what makes these events both powerful and unsettling. They demand bravery and nerves of steel, but also come with real consequences.

Acrobatics Over Blood

Not all bull events involve harming the animal. In fact, some are purely about agility and nerve. The recortadores are local heroes in parts of Spain, especially here in Valencia and in Castilla y León. These performers face the bull in the ring and execute flips, twists, and astonishing dodges just inches from its horns. It’s more parkour than matador, and the crowd loves it.

These events are actually my favorite. The athleticism, timing, and sheer guts it takes to pull off those moves is mesmerizing. Last year, we got a surprise reminder of how embedded these traditions are in village life. My husband’s padel partner, who we’d only ever seen in casual games and neighborly chats, turned out to be a part-time recortador. We were stunned when we saw him in the ring, doing incredibly dangerous tricks with the bull. Seeing him there brought home just how close these traditions are to everyday life here, quietly woven into the people around us.

These “concurso de recortes” events are often seen as a purer, more athletic form of bull tradition—one that celebrates courage and physical skill without the bloodshed.

Bullfighting: A Divided Tradition

While many bull events in Valencia don’t harm the animal, bullfighting (corrida de toros), where the bull is ultimately killed, is still practiced here. It remains one of Spain’s most polarizing traditions. It’s been banned in places like Catalonia—Barcelona outlawed it in 2010—and the Canary Islands banned it back in 1991. But Valencia, like Madrid and parts of Andalusia, continues to uphold the tradition, even as support wanes, especially among younger generations.

I’ve only been to one bullfight. My family and I went, wanting to understand the culture, but we quietly left after the first bull was killed. Seeing a lone animal, surrounded by a team whose purpose was to kill it, just felt unfair. I’m still glad I saw it—I believe travel should challenge us—but I haven’t gone back.

That said, I don’t mind the bull runs or the recortadores. Maybe it’s because the bulls survive those events. Maybe it’s because I’ve come to understand how deeply these festivals are woven into village life. Everything else—the concerts, the food, the fireworks—is scheduled around the bull events. Without them, the festival would feel unrecognizable to many locals.

Will Bull Culture End?

A lot of our Spanish friends say the same thing: “The villages will be the last ones to let it go.” And I believe them. While cities are beginning to legislate against bullfighting and rethink animal welfare, the villages are where tradition runs deepest. For many, these festivals are about identity, pride, and a connection to history.

It’s hard to imagine our village’s festival without the bulls. But I do wonder—how long will it last? Will the next generation carry on the tradition, or will they be the ones to let it go?

For now, I’ll keep observing with curiosity and respect. Living here means engaging with a culture that is older and more complex than I first understood. And that, after all, is why we travel and why we stay—to witness the world as it is, not just as we wish it to be.

The Spanish Coast You’ve Never Heard Of: An 11-Day Road Trip from Valencia to Barcelona

Underground rivers, volcanic islands, cliffside castles, and Roman ruins by the sea—this is the Mediterranean as you’ve never seen it. While most travelers rush between Valencia and Barcelona, they miss the incredible stretch of coastline that lies in between. I live here, and I’ve mapped out a 2-week road trip that winds through thermal springs, medieval towns, hidden beaches, and cliffside castles that rarely make it into guidebooks. If you’re ready to go beyond the tourist trail and explore the wild, beautiful, and often overlooked heart of coastal Spain, this itinerary is for you.

Day 1: Arrive in Valencia and settle in

Evening magic in Valencia’s Old Town — where golden light, Gothic arches, and quiet cobbled streets invite you to slow down and savor the charm

Start your adventure in Valencia, where ancient city walls blend with futuristic architecture. After checking in, head out on foot to explore the historic heart of the city. Wander through the labyrinthine streets of El Carmen, admire the mix of Moorish and Gothic details in the Valencia Cathedral, and climb the Micalet bell tower for panoramic views across the rooftops.

Why I recommend it:

Valencia is one of Spain’s most vibrant and walkable cities. Day one gives you a perfect introduction to its history, architecture, and laid-back Mediterranean energy. You’ll get a sense of place without needing to rush, making it ideal for arrival day.

Insider tip:

Grab a horchata (a traditional Valencian drink made from tiger nuts) at a local horchatería like Santa Catalina. It’s refreshing, local, and perfect for an afternoon break.

Day 2: Discover Valencia’s modern side

City of Arts and Sciences at dusk — Valencia’s futuristic masterpiece reflected in still waters

Today is about diving into Valencia’s bold, modern identity. Start your morning at the City of Arts and Sciences, a futuristic complex with striking architecture designed by Santiago Calatrava. Depending on your interests, you can tour the interactive science museum, catch a 3D film at the Hemisfèric, or explore Europe’s largest aquarium, the Oceanogràfic, home to beluga whales, jellyfish, and sea lions.

In the afternoon, rent a bike or enjoy a leisurely stroll through the Turia Gardens, a sunken park created from a diverted riverbed. It winds through the city like a green ribbon and offers shaded pathways, fountains, and playgrounds.

In the evening, head to the neighborhood of Ruzafa, one of Valencia’s trendiest districts. This area is filled with independent shops, art spaces, and some of the city’s best restaurants. It’s a great place to get a feel for local life away from the tourist core.

Why I recommend it:

Valencia’s modern identity is every bit as fascinating as its historic past. This day shows off the city's commitment to green spaces, innovation, and the arts in a way that makes it feel utterly alive and forward-looking.

Insider tip:

If you’re visiting in summer, consider timing your visit to the Oceanogràfic for late afternoon—it stays open late and is beautifully lit at night, making for a cool break from the heat and a magical evening experience.

Day 3: Coves de Sant Josep

Glide by boat or kayak through the surreal beauty of Coves de Sant Josep — Europe’s longest navigable subterranean river

Leave Valencia in the morning and head toward Coves de Sant Josep, home to the longest navigable underground river in Europe. Take a tranquil boat tour through the subterranean caves, gliding past dramatic rock formations and sparkling turquoise waters. For adventurous travelers, the espeleokayak experience offers the chance to paddle your own way through this otherworldly environment.

Why I recommend it:

There is nothing quite like floating through a mountain on an underground river. It’s a surreal, serene, and truly off-the-radar highlight of the region.

Insider tip:

Book your cave tour in advance, especially in summer months, and bring a light jacket—it stays cool inside year-round.

Day 4: Montanejos

Cool off in the crystal waters of Montanejos — where forest cliffs and thermal springs meet for the perfect inland beach day

Drive a little inland into the Alto Mijares region and spend the day in the wellness town of Montanejos. Start with a dip in the Fuente de los Baños, a hot spring-fed river that stays at a constant 25°C year-round. Then hike one of the dramatic canyon trails that surround the town. If you're up for it, take the path along the narrow gorge to see waterfalls and panoramic cliffs. For thrill-seekers, Montanejos also offers river rafting and aquatic canyoneering experiences, making it a fantastic destination for outdoor adventure.

Why I recommend it:

Montanejos is a hidden gem in the mountains with natural thermal waters, rugged beauty, and peaceful vibes. It’s a favorite spot for Valencians but rarely visited by international travelers.

Insider tip:

Arrive early if visiting on a weekend, as the river pools are popular with locals. Bring water shoes for comfort and grip on rocky trails.

Day 5: Benicàssim

Beach day done right in Benicàssim — soft sands, turquoise waves, and the soothing rhythm of the Mediterranean

After your inland adventures, return to the coast for a relaxing reset in Benicàssim. Known for its beaches backed by green hills and pine forests, Benicàssim offers the perfect balance of sun, sea, and scenery. Stroll the Vía Verde del Mar, a clifftop walking and biking trail with sweeping Mediterranean views. If time allows, visit the Desierto de las Palmas, a natural park and former monastery with hiking trails and spectacular vistas.

Why I recommend it:

Benicàssim gives you a gentle re-entry into coastal life with a healthy dose of nature, history, and beachside relaxation—ideal after two active inland days.

Insider tip:

Stop at the Voramar Hotel for a beachside meal with a view. If you’re staying there (which I recommend), you can borrow their bikes and take them up the Vía Verde for a breezy ride along the cliffs.

Day 6: Peñíscola

Step into history at Peñíscola Castle — a seaside fortress with sweeping Mediterranean views and centuries of intrigue

Continue north along the coast to Peñíscola, one of Spain’s most cinematic coastal towns. Its historic old town juts out into the sea on a rocky peninsula crowned by a Templar castle—once home to a rebellious pope. Spend your afternoon wandering the cobbled streets, exploring the fortress, and enjoying views over the Mediterranean.

Why I recommend it:

Peñíscola offers a blend of history and drama that’s hard to beat. The castle, beaches, and old town make it one of the most picturesque stops on the route.

Insider tip:

Try to catch the castle near sunset for spectacular lighting and fewer crowds. The local specialty here is grilled octopus—look for it on the menu!

Day 7: Columbretes Islands

Sail to the wild beauty of the Columbretes — a volcanic island chain surrounded by sapphire seas and protected marine life

Take a full-day excursion to the Columbretes Islands, a remote volcanic archipelago and marine reserve located off the coast. Boats typically depart from Castellón or Alcossebre, and many tours include a guided hike on the largest island and time for snorkeling in crystal-clear waters teeming with marine life. These islands are uninhabited and protected, offering a unique window into Mediterranean biodiversity.

Why I recommend it:

The Columbretes are wild, beautiful, and almost untouched by tourism. It's a rare chance to explore a remote natural wonder that few travelers ever see.

Insider tip:

Tours are weather-dependent and spots are limited, so it’s best to book early and check forecasts. Pack sunscreen, a hat, and plenty of water—there’s no shade or services on the islands.

Return to Peñíscola or stay in nearby Alcossebre for the night to rest up after your sea adventure.

Day 8: Tarragona (first day)

Tarragona’s Roman amphitheatre — ancient history with a sea view, where gladiators once battled just steps from the beach

Head north to Tarragona, a seaside city where ancient Roman ruins stand proudly beside golden beaches. Start with a visit to the amphitheater, dramatically perched above the sea, and then explore the Roman circus and city walls. Walk along the Rambla Nova, the main boulevard, until you reach the Mediterranean Balcony, a scenic overlook that locals believe brings good luck if you touch its iron railings.

Why I recommend it:

Tarragona blends rich Roman history with a relaxed coastal vibe. It’s far less crowded than Barcelona and full of genuine Catalan character, making it the perfect midpoint for your northern stretch.

Insider tip:

Buy a combined ticket for Tarragona’s Roman sites—it covers multiple attractions and saves money. For dinner, opt for a seaside spot near El Serrallo, the fisherman’s quarter, for incredibly fresh seafood

Day 9: PortAventura Theme Park (second day in Tarragona)

Sky-high thrills by the sea — PortAventura delivers pure adrenaline on Spain’s Mediterranean coast

Spend your second day based in Tarragona at PortAventura World, one of Europe’s best theme parks and a favorite for families, thrill-seekers, and roller coaster aficionados. The park is divided into themed areas like the Mediterranean, Polynesia, China, and the Far West, each packed with attractions, shows, and food experiences. Don’t miss Shambhala, one of the tallest roller coasters in Europe, or Angkor, a water ride perfect for cooling off.

Why I recommend it:

After a week of cultural sightseeing and nature adventures, PortAventura adds pure fun and adrenaline to the mix. It’s just 15 minutes from Tarragona and makes for a perfect change of pace.

Insider tip:

Buy tickets in advance and consider the Express Pass if you’re visiting in the summer—lines can be long. Arrive early and head straight to the major rides first to beat the crowds.

Day 10: Barcelona (first day)

Wander where the locals do — tree-lined streets, tucked-away shops, and the soul of Barcelona in every step

Arrive in Barcelona and skip the overdone checklist. Instead of starting with the Sagrada Familia, start your experience in Gràcia, a neighborhood of leafy plazas, artisan boutiques, and cafés with personality. Walk its narrow streets, sip vermouth on a terrace, and get a feel for the authentic daily rhythm of the city.

Later, climb to the Bunkers del Carmel, a former Civil War site turned panoramic lookout. It’s one of the best places to watch the sunset over the whole of Barcelona—from the sea to the mountains.

Why I recommend it:

These two spots capture the energy, creativity, and perspective that makes Barcelona unforgettable, without the crowds.

Insider tip:

Pack a picnic for the Bunkers (wine, cheese, local bread), but go early—locals love it, and it fills up fast.

Day 11: Barcelona (second night)

Step into Picasso’s world — from early sketches to bold masterpieces, the museum traces the genius behind the brush

Spend your final day in the El Born district, one of the city's most charming and stylish quarters. Visit the Picasso Museum or the historic El Born Centre de Cultura i Memòria, then get lost in the maze of medieval streets, browsing galleries and stopping for excellent tapas. If you’re up for one last scenic view, end your trip with a coastal hike or beachside lunch in Garraf Natural Park, just a short train ride away.

Why I recommend it:

El Born offers depth, intimacy, and delight at every turn—and Garraf’s coastal cliffs give you a peaceful, reflective end to your adventure.

Insider tip:

The restaurant Mirador de les Caves near Garraf makes for a memorable final meal with sweeping views over the vineyards and sea.

Need to know

Buy local in villages. Small towns like Villafamés and Zucaina often have just one shop or market. Buying bread, fruit, or cheese from them is a great way to support the local economy—and sometimes the only way to stock up.

Don’t rely on Google Maps alone. It often misses hiking trails or gets confused in medieval town centers. Check trail apps or ask your hotel for printed maps—locals love to help.

Afternoon shutdown is real. From 2–5 pm, towns can feel deserted. This is the perfect time to take a siesta, hit the beach, or enjoy a long lunch—then explore once things reopen.

Picnic like a local. Many of the best views—atop the Bunkers in Barcelona, the cliffs in Benicàssim, or the coves near Peñíscola—are best enjoyed with snacks and a bottle of wine you picked up earlier that day.

Expect the unexpected. A medieval festival, a mountain storm, a local striking up conversation at a bar—this trip is designed to leave space for discovery. Leave room in your days (and your plans) for spontaneity.

This itinerary is your invitation to experience the unexpected side of Spain’s Mediterranean coast—one village, one view, and one unforgettable moment at a time.

The Travel Questions I Wish More People Asked Me

People often ask me, “What’s your favorite place you’ve ever been?”

It’s a fair question, and a hard one to answer.

I’ve lived in nine countries and traveled through more than eighty. Some places stunned me with beauty. Others surprised me with quiet moments of connection or discomfort that I didn’t expect.

When I think about travel, I find myself wishing we started with different questions. Like:

– Where have you felt most alive in your travels? (For me, India.)

– What kind of places have challenged and changed you? (Volunteering in the Peace Corps in Albania.)

– Where have you had the most unplanned connections with locals? (Definitely Mongolia.) – Where have you felt the most uneasy? (Yemen.)

– Where would you return to in a heartbeat? (Argentina, because you could never see it all.)

I’ve also learned that the most hyped moments aren’t always the most moving ones. We recently saw the northern lights in Finland. They were vivid green on my phone camera, but in person they looked more like a funny-shaped white cloud.

Still, I’m still glad we saw them. It reminded me how much of travel is about what experiences feel like, not just what they look like in pictures afterwards.

My point is, the answers to these questions don’t live in a search engine.
But they shape the kinds of trips that stay with you long after you’ve unpacked your bags.

If you’re thinking about a trip — for this summer or someday — and want it to be more than just a vacation, I’d love to help you explore the questions that matter most. Feel free to reach out.

And if any of these questions resonate with you, I’d love to hear your answers, too.

Island Hot List: European Summer Escapes for Every Vibe

When it comes to summer escapes, not all islands are created equal — and that's half the fun. Maybe you're chasing sun-drenched hikes and wild coastlines, or maybe you’re just looking for a low-key beach where the biggest decision is rosé or spritz. Here’s my cheat sheet to finding the island (and the vibe) that matches your mood.

For nature lovers: Madeira

Image courtesy of Reid's Palace, A Belmond Hotel, Madeira

Floating in the Atlantic off the coast of Portugal, Madeira is a rugged island of dramatic cliffs, waterfalls and dense laurel forests. Hike the island’s levada trails — over 2000km of narrow irrigation channels that wind through forest, past waterfalls and up into cloud-covered peaks. Head to Cabo Girão for a glass-floored viewpoint (one of Europe’s highest sea cliffs, 580m above the ocean) or rise early to catch the sunrise above the clouds at Pico do Arieiro. Whale and dolphin watching is a must (you can often spot pilot whales and bottlenose dolphins just off the coast), and a swim in the volcanic rock pools of Porto Moniz is a refreshing reward after a day on the trails. Back in Funchal, wander the botanical gardens or sample the island’s fortified wine at Blandy’s.

Insider tip: The island's microclimates mean that one side of Madeira can be completely sunny while the other is shrouded in mist. If you’re exploring, take a jacket or sweater just in case — especially if you're heading up to the mountains for a hike.

Where to stay in Madeira

Reid’s Palace, A Belmond Hotel. A pink-hued clifftop classic since 1891, serving up old-school glamour, knockout Atlantic views and one of the dreamiest afternoon teas in Europe.

• Fora’s Belmond Bellini Club partner perks include a hotel credit, a welcome amenity, daily breakfast and an upgrade whenever possible.

For adventure seekers: Sardinia

Image courtesy of Romazzino, A Belmond Hotel, Costa Smeralda

Sardinia serves up both adrenaline and elegance in equal measure - perfect for those who crave adventures without sacrificing style. On the northern coast, Porto Pollo is a mecca for kite surfers, while divers head to the limestone caves off Tavolara and Capo Caccia for underwater arches and shipwrecks. Hikers can tackle the Selvaggio Blu, a multi-day coastal trek that’s one of Italy’s toughest (and most rewarding), or explore gentler paths through the Gennargentu mountains, where you’ll stumble on Bronze Age ruins, mountain goats and views that stretch for miles. Inland villages like Orgosolo offer a glimpse of old Sardinian life, complete with hand-painted murals and slow lunches of suckling pig and Cannonau wine. And for some glam between hikes and boat trips, head north to Costa Smeralda where Porto Cervo’s designer boutiques, yacht-filled marinas and chic beach clubs bring the island’s luxe side to life.

Insider tip: Skip August if you can — July and September offer better weather, fewer crowds and warmer sea temperatures. And rent a car — the island's hidden gems are best discovered off the beaten path.

Where to stay in Sardinia

Romazzino, A Belmond Hotel, Costa Smeralda. A whitewashed beauty on Costa Smeralda, known for its handcrafted Sardinian design, turquoise bay and relaxed Riviera glamour.

• Fora’s Belmond Bellini Club partner perks include a hotel credit, a welcome amenity, daily breakfast and an upgrade whenever possible.

For a family vibe: Mallorca

Mallorca ticks all the boxes for a family getaway. The island’s soft-sand beaches — like Playa de Muro and Cala d'Or — have calm, shallow waters perfect for little swimmers, and boat trips reveal hidden coves perfect for snorkelling and paddleboarding. Off the sand, there are water parks (Aqualand El Arenal is the island’s largest), gentle hikes in the Serra de Tramuntana and charming towns like Alcudia, where kids can roam cobbled streets and bustling markets. Getting around is a breeze thanks to the island’s compact size, and you’ll find a warm, kid-loving welcome everywhere — plus plenty of restaurants catering to younger palates.

Insider tip: For a quieter retreat, hop on a ferry to Formentera — a stunning, car-free island known for its crystal-clear waters, unspoiled beaches and peaceful atmosphere.

Where to stay in Mallorca

Four Seasons Resort Mallorca at Formentor. A glamorous comeback on the island’s northern tip — think pine forests, postcard beaches and polished Mediterranean style.

• When you book Four Seasons with a Fora advisor,  you will enjoy exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner amenities.

For nightlife lovers: Hvar

Image courtesy of Maslina Resort

With its reputation for yacht parties and late-night energy, Hvar is Croatia’s go-to island for those who like their summer with a side of sparkle. But it’s not just about the party. You’ll also find sun-bleached stone towns, fragrant lavender fields and tucked-away coves perfect for a midday swim. Wander the elegant, cobbled streets of Hvar Town lined with Venetian architecture and buzzing cafés, hike up to the Fortica Fortress for panoramic views or set sail to the Pakleni Islands for a day of beach-hopping and turquoise bays. 

Insider tip: If you need a breather from the buzz, head to the quieter stretch of coastline near Maslinica Bay, where olive trees, pine forest and crystalline water offer a slower, softer side to Hvar.

Where to stay in Hvar

Maslina Resort. Set above a peaceful bay near Stari Grad, this sleek, design-forward hideout is all about earthy tones, organic dining and Adriatic views.

• Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

For beach goers: Milos

Image courtesy of Domes White Coast Milos

Milos is the Greek destination you want for a relaxed pace plus gorgeous beaches. This volcanic island is a treasure trove of ancient ruins, whitewashed fishing villages and dramatic coastal landscapes. Wander the Roman amphitheatre where the Venus de Milo was discovered, or stroll through Plaka’s cobbled streets to catch sunset over the Aegean. A boat trip is a must — the island’s rugged coastline hides surreal spots like Kleftiko, a chalk-white cove once used by pirates, and Sykia, a collapsed sea cave you can swim inside. On land, check out beaches like the otherworldly Sarakiniko and colorful Firiplaka. And between dips, don’t miss feasting on grilled octopus, tangy xinomyzithra cheese and tomato fritters in laid-back tavernas by the sea.

Insider tip: Milos has over 70 beaches, many only accessible by boat — take a small-group sailing tour for a full-day circuit of secret swimming spots and cliff-jumping coves.

Where to stay in Milos

Domes White Coast Milos. A secluded, adults-only escape perched above the sea, with private plunge pools and front-row seats to Milos’ fiery sunsets.

• Fora Perks include a $50–$100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Bonus picks: 5 off-the-radar islands

Lošinj, Croatia

If you’re craving even quieter shores and willing to venture a little farther, these five lesser-known islands and recommended hotels promise deeper solitude, enduring traditions and raw, elemental beauty. The air feels fresher, the pace slows and going off-grid feels entirely natural.

Pantelleria, Italy. Just 32 square miles of lava rock and wild beauty, this remote island between Sicily and Tunisia trades beaches for thermal springs, traditional dammusi homes with white-domed roofs and volcanic serenity. Reachable by ferry or a short flight from Palermo or Trapani.

• Sikelia is a striking, grown-up hideaway set in ancient dammuso dwellings with a deep connection to the island's rugged landscape. Fora Perks include a $50–$100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.<

Muhu Island, Estonia. Life on this scenic Baltic isle moves at its own gentle rhythm. Villagers still bake dense black rye leib bread in wood-fired ovens, wear colorful folk costumes and adorn their cottages with ancient mystical symbols​. Accessible by ferry from Saaremaa or a short flight from Tallinn.

• Pädaste Manor is a 16th-century estate turned boutique hotel with a Nordic spa and serious farm-to-table focus. Fora Perks include a $50–$100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Lošinj, Croatia. Known as the ‘Island of Vitality,’ this lesser-known Croatian gem boasts over 200 days of sunshine annually and has drawn health seekers since the 19th century, thanks to its famously pure air, healing pine forests and calm Adriatic waters.

• Boutique Hotel Alhambra is a restored villa on pine-fringed Čikat Bay featuring sea-view balconies, Michelin-Starred dining and a standout saltwater spa. Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Folegandros, Greece. This tiny, cliff-hugging island in the Cyclades is all about simplicity: whitewashed villages, winding mule paths and cliffside views that seem to stretch forever. Life slows in postcard-perfect Chora, perched high above the Aegean, where long lunches and golden-hour hikes to the Panagia church are daily rituals. Accessible by ferry from Santorini, Milos or Piraeus.

• Gundari is a design-forward hideaway with private plunge pools, a sleek spa and standout Greek cuisine by Michelin-Starred chef Lefteris Lazarou. Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, a welcome amenity and an upgrade whenever possible.

Gozo, Malta.  Sleepier and greener than Malta’s main island, Gozo keeps things slow. Hike past craggy cliffs and salt pans, swim in the clear waters of Ramla Bay and explore baroque churches and Neolithic temples older than the pyramids.

• Kempinski Hotel San Lawrenz is a family-friendly resort built from local limestone, featuring al fresco dining, three outdoor pools surrounded by palm trees and one of Europe’s largest Ayurvedic spas. Fora’s Kempinski Club 1897 partner perks include $50–$100 hotel credit, daily breakfast and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Is It Uncomfortable to Be an American Traveler Today?

This question comes up more than you might think. Some people are nervous about how Americans are perceived overseas, especially with how polarized American politics has become.

I understand the concern—and I want to offer some reassurance based on personal experience, not politics.

I live in Spain now and have traveled widely over the years, including long stretches living in countries with very different cultures and political systems—places like India, Argentina, Japan, Albania, and the UAE.

When U.S. politics does come up, I find it’s usually in conversation with other Americans, not locals. People in other countries may have opinions about the U.S., of course, but most are focused on their own lives and domestic politics, which impact them much more.

You’re far more likely to be asked where you’re from, what you think of their country, or—if you’re particularly far afield—why you decided to go there.

Even during the recent presidential election, it was mentioned only in passing and almost always with mild curiosity. It’s also perfectly fine to keep your own political opinions to yourself—in fact, most people do. For context, Spain’s political climate is complex too, but it’s only come up a handful of times in the past three years I’ve lived here.

So if you’ve been holding back from international travel out of concern about how you’ll be received, here’s my honest advice: Go. Be present. Ask questions. Learn something new.

There’s no need to be apologetic. Just show up as a thoughtful, curious traveler. That’s more than enough.

You’ll find that the world is more open and less reactive than the news cycle might suggest.

And if you're thinking about planning a meaningful trip but feeling hesitant, I’d be happy to help you navigate it with curiosity and care.

Why Take Kids on Exotic Vacations If They Won't Remember It?

One of the most common objections to traveling with young children is: "Why take them on expensive, once-in-a-lifetime trips when they won’t even remember it?" It’s a reasonable concern. Travel is costly, and international travel can be especially so. If you’re going to make the investment, it’s natural to want your children to have lasting memories of the experience. But this perspective, while understandable, misses the true value of travel—especially for children.

When Do Memories Begin to Matter?

At what age do we assume children will start remembering travel? Adolescence? The teenage years? But think about it—how well do you really remember trips you took at fifteen? Sure, you might recall a few key moments, but many details fade over time. And yet, those trips still had an impact on shaping who you are today. Travel is more than just collecting memories; it’s about experiencing different places, cultures, and ways of life in the present moment.

The Benefits of Travel for Young Children

Even if children don’t retain vivid memories of a trip, they benefit in profound ways. Early exposure to different environments, customs, foods, and ways of life helps shape their worldview. Unlike adults, who are more “set” in their ways, children are still forming their perspectives. Travel at a young age teaches them flexibility, adaptability, and an appreciation for diversity.

Experiencing the world early on helps children become more open to different ways of doing things. They may not remember the specifics of a foreign marketplace, but they will have developed a comfort with the unfamiliar. They may not recall every dish they tried in another country, but they will likely grow up more adventurous with food. Seeing the beauty of the planet—from towering glaciers to vibrant coral reefs—can spark a lifelong love of nature and conservation, even if they don’t consciously remember the first time they saw it.

Memory Is More Than a Snapshot

Memory itself is a tricky thing. Our son was five when we took him to the Galápagos Islands. He’s ten now, and he still talks about that trip. He recently even did a school presentation on it. Does he truly remember it, or does he remember it because we’ve talked about it often, showing him pictures and sharing stories? Maybe it doesn’t matter. His sense of connection to that experience is real, whether it’s a firsthand memory or a reinforced one.

Why We Travel as a Family

We don’t worry about what our son will or won’t remember. We take him with us on incredible journeys because that’s just what we do as a family. And if he wants to revisit some of these places as an adult, he will. If he doesn’t, that’s fine too. What matters is that he has been shaped by these experiences in ways both seen and unseen.

Travel isn’t just about preserving memories—it’s about growing, learning, and shaping who we become. And for children, that impact is even greater. Whether they remember it or not, the experience stays with them.

Forget What You Know About Luxury Travel—This Is the Real Definition

When people hear the phrase "luxury travel," they might picture opulent hotels with gold faucets, butlers catering to every whim, and lavish marble-clad suites. But at Niveus Travel, luxury means something different. It’s not about excess, it’s about access. It’s about curated, deeply personal, and unforgettable experiences in some of the most extraordinary places on the planet.

True luxury isn’t about the thread count of your sheets; it’s about the exclusivity of your experience. It’s about standing in awe of nature, history, and culture, free from crowds and constraints, with an expert guide illuminating the journey.

Personalized Luxury in the Wild

One of my most memorable travel experiences was celebrating my 45th birthday in Argentina’s incredible Ibera Wetlands, where my family had a private guide leading us through the wilderness at our own pace. When our young son became fascinated by a cabybara track, the guide stopped and helped him make plaster casts, turning it into an impromptu nature lesson. Later, as the sun set, a beautifully set table awaited us in the middle of the wetlands, complete with wine, appetizers, and incredible views.

Another trip took my family, another family we're close friends with, and our 100-pound dog deep into Wrangell-St. Elias National Park in Alaska. Our little group was flown into the remote wilderness with two expert guides for three days of hiking and camping completely off the grid. One day, we trekked onto a vast, untouched glacier, completely alone with just our guides, surrounded by an endless expanse of ice and sky—a surreal, humbling experience of true wilderness. There were no plush beds or five-star meals, but the feeling of total immersion in nature—where every detail had been thoughtfully arranged—was the ultimate luxury. In both experiences, it wasn’t about material indulgence; it was about privacy, seamless planning, and being fully present in extraordinary places. 

Luxury takes many forms, and at its core, it’s about the richness of experience. These are some of the ways luxury is being redefined in travel:

• Maximizing Time in the Right Places – Time is one of the most valuable luxuries of all. Imagine flying to Antarctica instead of spending days crossing the notoriously rough Drake Passage by boat. By skipping the turbulence of the sea, you arrive refreshed and ready to immerse yourself in the untouched splendor of the White Continent, making every moment count where it truly matters.

• Expert Guides – Another aspect of luxury travel is having the right guide—someone who can unlock experiences that remain hidden from most visitors. Picture exploring Egypt with a top Egyptologist who doesn’t just recite facts, but brings the ancient world to life, guiding you into lesser-known tombs and hidden chambers far from the usual crowds.

• Exclusive Access – Imagine stepping into the Vatican before dawn, walking through its historic main entrance—long closed to the public—accompanying the Key Master as he turns on the lights and unlocks each room. With no one else in sight, you move through the Sistine Chapel and Raphael Rooms in near silence, sharing the space only with the masterworks themselves.

• Authentic Connection – Luxury isn’t just about where you go; it’s about how you experience it. It’s about deep, personal connections with the places you visit and the people who call them home. In Greenland, that might mean accompanying an Inuit hunter for a day, gaining first-hand insight into traditional ways of life in the Arctic. In Mongolia, it could be riding alongside eagle hunters in the Altai Mountains, learning the ancient art of falconry.

These experiences go beyond sightseeing—they offer a sense of place, connection, and authenticity that mainstream tourism simply cannot provide.

The Essence of Luxury Travel: Personal, Immersive, and Unforgettable

At Niveus Travel, luxury isn’t about extravagance. It’s about seamless, expertly crafted experiences that bring you closer to the world in ways that are meaningful and rare. It’s about having a private moment in an iconic destination, experiencing the wild in its purest form, and traveling with experts who enrich every step of the journey. It’s about creating stories that will stay with you forever.

If this is the kind of travel that excites you, let’s talk. I’d love to help you experience the world in a way that’s truly extraordinary!

Insider's Guide to the Nordic Region

Nordic countries inspire thoughts of colorful skies rippling with the Northern Lights and sleighs dashing through snowy winter wonderlands — but they are so much more.

A trip to the Nordics is for anyone who loves urban cultural stops paired with exceptional landscapes, plus a bit of adventure thrown in. And each season brings a totally different set of experiences. 

From Norway's fjords to Finland’s Lapland, I’ve put together some of my favorite intel about where to go and what to see in the Nordic Region, including Norway, Sweden, Finland and Denmark.

So whether you’re visiting open-air summer markets and majestic palaces in Copenhagen or chasing the Northern Lights in Abisko National Park, Sweden, here are some of the best places to stay, plus where to go and what to do.   

For personalized suggestions and detailed itineraries, reach out to me to start planning your Nordic getaway.

Need to know

Currency

The official currencies vary across the region: the Swedish Krona (SEK) in Sweden, Norwegian Krone (NOK) in Norway, Danish Krone (DKK) in Denmark and Euro (EUR) in Finland.

Transportation 

Trains, ferries and car rentals are the primary modes of transportation in the Nordic countries. Urban settings like Helsinki, Stockholm and Oslo are very walkable, and bicycles (there’s a substantial network of bike paths) are hugely popular during warmer months.

Airports

• Norway: Oslo Gardermoen Airport (OSL) is the main international gateway to Norway and sits about 30 minutes from Oslo. Tromsø Airport (TOS) is in northern Norway and is a good choice when exploring the Arctic region. 

• Sweden: Stockholm Arlanda Airport (ARN) is the main gateway to Sweden and is located about 40 minutes from Stockholm. Kiruna Airport (KRN) sits in the far north — use this airport when exploring Swedish Lapland. 

• Finland: Helsinki-Vantaa Airport (HEL) is a 30-minute drive from Helsinki. Rovaniemi Airport (RVN) in the heart of Lapland offers easy access to northern Finland. 

• Denmark: Copenhagen Airport (CPH) is located just 15 minutes from the city center by train or car.
  

Best time to visit

• Summer (June to August): Expect mild to warm weather, with temperatures ranging from 60°F to 77°F. These months are best for exploring Sweden’s lakes, Finland’s forests and Norway’s fjords, with the northern areas experiencing the midnight sun for near-endless daylight. Denmark, a more year-round destination, is on the warm end of this range.

• Winter (November to March): Winter temperatures range from 15°F to 32°F in the south to much colder in the far north. Skiing, snowmobiling and dog sledding are popular, while Northern Lights viewing peaks during this time across the region. You can view the fjords during this season, but remember daylight hours are limited so plan accordingly. 
  

Ideal length of stay

A 7-10 night stay is perfect for a Nordic experience. This gives you time to hit the main attractions, like the Northern Lights, winter activities and local culture. For remote areas like Lapland or Tromsø, stay longer to account for longer travel times and a more immersive experience.

Signature dishes

• Norway: Lutefisk (dried fish reconstituted in lye) and Rakfisk (fermented fish) are traditional dishes, often enjoyed during winter.

• Sweden: Meatballs (köttbullar) served with lingonberry sauce and gravlax (cured salmon) are staples of Swedish cuisine.

• Denmark: Smørrebrød (open-faced sandwiches) and Frikadeller (meatballs) are popular, hearty choices.

• Finland: Karjalanpiirakka (rice-filled pastries) and Ruisleipä (rye bread) are Finnish comfort foods.
  

Languages and key phrases

English is widely spoken and understood in the Nordic countries, especially in the cities. Norwegian (both Bokmål and Nynorsk dialects), Swedish and Danish are the official languages of their respective countries, and Finland is bilingual, with both Finnish and Swedish.

• Norway & Sweden: “Takk” (Thank you), “Hei” (Hello), “Vær så snill” (Please).

• Denmark: “Tak” (Thank you), “Hej” (Hello), “Undskyld” (Excuse me).

• Finland: “Kiitos” (Thank you), “Hei” (Hello), “Anteeksi” (Excuse me).
  

What to wear

Practical and comfortable clothing is essential. Be prepared for cold temperatures in winter months and cool nights in the summer months. Layered outfits, waterproof jackets and sturdy shoes are common. For upscale dining or city evenings, smart-casual attire is appropriate — think wool sweaters, tailored trousers and stylish boots. If you tend toward the modest side, make sure to bring a swimsuit for cold plunges and saunas.

Where to stay

Norway

Image courtesy of The Thief

Amerikalinjin, Oslo: A boutique, centrally located hotel housed in a historic building, blending Oslo’s maritime past with a modern aesthetic.

• Preferred Platinum perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Sommerro, Oslo: An Art Deco-inspired hotel offering a stylish mix of historic charm and contemporary elegance in Oslo’s vibrant Frogner district.

• Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

The Thief: A sleek, design-forward hotel known for its modern art, waterfront views and its distinctive curved facade in Oslo’s trendy Tjuvholmen neighborhood.

• Preferred Platinum perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Sweden

Image courtesy of Grand Hôtel Stockholm

Grand Hôtel Stockholm: A classic hotel overlooking the waterfront, offering elegant rooms and a rich history in central Stockholm.

• Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Lydmar Hotel, Stockholm: A stylish boutique hotel with an artsy, relaxed vibe, known for its modern design and central location.

• Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Finland

Image courtesy of Hotel St. George

Hotel St. George, Helsinki: A chic, wellness-focused hotel combining understated luxury with a relaxed vibe in the center of Helsinki.

• Design Hotels Pro perks include a hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
  

The Barö, Finland: A nature-inspired retreat offering minimalist design and stunning archipelago views, perfect for a peaceful, eco-friendly getaway.

Runo Hotel Porvoo: A boutique hotel set in a historic building with airy, Scandinavian-inspired interiors style in a picturesque riverside setting.

• Design Hotels Pro perks include a complimentary cocktail class, a welcome amenity, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Denmark

Image courtesy of Hotel Sanders

Villa Copenhagen: A grand, eco-conscious hotel that blends the clean lines of Danish style with historic elegance in a central location near Copenhagen’s main sights.

• Preferred Platinum perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
  

Hotel Sanders: A boutique hotel perfect for travelers looking for a quaint, welcoming stay near Copenhagen’s cultural sites.

• Fora Perks include a complimentary lunch or dinner for two, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
  

Activities

Norway

Northern Lights: Head to Tromsø for one of the best places to view the Northern Lights, along with dog sledding and whale watching.

• Train: Take a scenic train or boat tour through Norway’s famous fjords, such as Sognefjord and Geirangerfjord, known for their beauty.

• Bryggen Wharf: Explore Bergen’s colorful UNESCO-listed Bryggen Wharf and take the funicular up Mount Fløyen for breathtaking views.

• Museums: Visit Oslo’s art museums, including the National Museum of Art and the Astrup Fearnley Museum for a mix of contemporary and classic art.

• Sleigh rides: Participate in reindeer sleigh rides and learn about Sami culture in the northern regions of Norway.

• Christmas markets: Stroll through Oslo’s Christmas Markets, where you can enjoy festive stalls, seasonal treats and holiday shopping. 
  

Sweden

Northern Lights: Head to Abisko National Park, one of the best spots in the world to see the Northern Lights due to its clear skies. 

• Explore Stockholm: Don’t miss the historic neighborhood of Gamla Stan. A good way to see Stockholm’s archipelago is by boat. Museum WAY (a cultural hub by the water) will give you a great snapshot of the area’s history at the Viking Museum, Vasa Museum and Spiritmuseum, all located next to each other. Design lovers can wander through the Södermalm and SoFo neighborhoods, known for the arts, vintage shops and cool cafes.

• Ice Hotel: Stay in the world-famous Ice Hotel in Jukkasjärvi, carved from ice each year.

• Baking class: Take a cinnamon bun-making class to master the art of creating those sweet Swedish treats.

• Boat ride: Get a unique vantage point of the city and its architecture by taking a boat tour. (I can help book this.)

Finland

Northern Lights: Witness the magical Northern Lights in Lapland (Ruka or Levi) and enjoy activities such as dog sledding, reindeer safaris and snowshoeing in Finland’s Arctic regions.

• Sauna: Take part in the famous Finnish tradition — the sauna. And for those that have a hearty stamina, follow this with a cold plunge or roll in the snow.

• Explore Helsinki: The capital city’s design district includes the Helsinki Cathedral and a market square where you’ll find local boutiques and cafes (don’t miss the delicious pastries — some of the best pastries you’ll taste anywhere).

• Visit Santa Claus Village: Make your childhood dreams come true with a visit to Rovaniemi, the official home of Santa Claus. Families can’t miss this for a huge dose of festive charm.

• Island hopping: Discover the beautiful islands in the Finnish archipelago with a boat tour from Turku.

Denmark

Museums: Explore Contemporary Art and Design at the Louisiana Museum of Modern Art and Designmuseum Danmark, where cutting-edge exhibitions meet Danish design heritage. Explore Aarhus and the ARoS Aarhus Art Museum, known for its rainbow-colored panoramic rooftop walk and exhibitions.

• Botanical Gardens: Stroll through the gorgeous gardens at the Botanical Gardens in Copenhagen during warm months, and explore the exotic greenhouse plants all year — a perfect break from the bustling city.

• Explore Copenhagen: Visit the Hidden Courtyards of Copenhagen, where tucked-away cafes and boutiques offer a more intimate setting for shopping and dining. 

• Northern Lights: Northern Lights viewing is possible in remote areas like Thy National Park, where you’ll find quiet luxury lodges about five hours from Copenhagen. 

Add-on destinations

If you’re heading to the Nordic Region, it makes sense to spend a little extra time exploring some other nearby destinations. These spots make a good pairing with any of the Nordic countries because of their proximity and easy flight connections. Contact me for suggestions on where to stay and what to do, as well as some more options.

• Iceland: Iceland is home to dramatic landscapes with volcanoes, geysers and hot springs. It’s a great addition for nature lovers and those who want outdoor adventure.

• Edinburgh, Scotland: A short flight from the Nordic capitals, Edinburgh combines history with striking landscapes. Its medieval Old Town and Edinburgh Castle make it a good stop for travelers who want to experience more of Northern Europe’s heritage and charm.

• Tallinn, Estonia: Hop on a ferry from Helsinki to reach Tallinn’s medieval Old Town, a UNESCO World Heritage site. You’ll feel like you’re stepping back in time with cobbled streets and centuries-old architecture — a great combo after soaking in some of the Nordic’s natural landscapes.

• Riga, Latvia: Travelers reach Latvia via flight or ferry from Stockholm or Helsinki. Riga’s Art Nouveau architecture and Old Town make it interesting just to walk around. Summer months feature outdoor markets and cafes with terrace dining. 

• Amsterdam, Netherlands: Take a flight from any Nordic capital to Amsterdam for a mix of historic canals, world-class museums (like the Van Gogh Museum and Rijksmuseum) and a relaxed, bike-friendly culture. The city’s charming neighborhoods and easygoing vibe make it a great pairing with any Nordic itinerary.
  

For customized recommendations and expert planning, reach out to me to begin your Nordic adventure.

Beyond the Blue Lagoon: Discovering Iceland’s Hidden Hot Springs

Like most travelers to Iceland, I couldn’t wait to visit the Blue Lagoon. It’s practically a rite of passage—a dreamy expanse of milky blue water set against a backdrop of black volcanic rock. The water, rich in silica, feels almost otherworldly as it envelops you in warmth, no matter the season. I floated lazily, slathered the mineral-rich mud on my face, and sipped a drink from the lagoon’s in-water bar, completely enchanted by the experience.

But here’s the thing: the Blue Lagoon is no secret. Tour buses roll in constantly, dropping off crowds of visitors eager to soak in its legendary waters. Even with its large size, the lagoon can feel packed, especially during peak hours. 

While I don’t regret my visit for a second, I found myself wondering—what other geothermal gems are out there in this land of volcanoes and hot springs? It turns out, plenty. If you’re willing to go beyond Reykjavik, Iceland offers an incredible array of lesser-known but equally stunning hot springs—some of which are even better than the Blue Lagoon. 

Here’s what I found:

1. Sky Lagoon: The Sophisticated Alternative

Located just a short drive from Reykjavik, Sky Lagoon is the easiest alternative to the Blue Lagoon, and it delivers an entirely different experience. Unlike the otherworldly, silica-rich waters of the Blue Lagoon, Sky Lagoon is all about seamlessly blending into nature. The infinity-edge pool looks out over the Atlantic Ocean, creating a dramatic contrast between the steamy water and the crashing waves beyond.

The real highlight? The seven-step Ritual, which takes you through a cycle of hot, cold, and steam experiences. Imagine going from a warm soak to a cold plunge, then stepping into a sauna with panoramic ocean views before indulging in a mineral scrub. It’s designed to invigorate, and it absolutely delivers. If you love the idea of a refined, spa-like experience without leaving the capital area, Sky Lagoon is perfect.

2. Mývatn Nature Baths: The Best Blue Lagoon Alternative

If you’re up for venturing further north, the Mývatn Nature Baths are well worth the trip. Located in the volcanic landscapes of North Iceland, this geothermal paradise offers the same milky blue waters as the Blue Lagoon, but with a fraction of the crowds.

Set amidst lava fields and steaming earth, Mývatn has a much more wild, untamed feel. It’s also a fantastic place to soak under the Northern Lights if you visit in winter. Even better? If you time your visit right, you can experience the Mývatn Winter Festival, held from late February to early March each year. This event combines local culture, winter sports, and—of course—plenty of hot spring relaxation, making it an unforgettable time to visit.

3. Vök Baths: Floating in Pure Icelandic Spring Water

Located in East Iceland, Vök Baths offer something truly unique: hot springs that float on a lake. Unlike the other geothermal pools, which are naturally rich in minerals, the water here is completely fresh and drinkable. The thermal pools extend out into Lake Urriðavatn, creating an incredible sensation of soaking in warm water while surrounded by a larger, cooler body of water.

Vök is also a fantastic place for those who love a more minimalist, peaceful setting. It’s beautifully designed, blending into the landscape with wood decking and infinity-edge pools. Since it’s further from Reykjavik, it tends to attract fewer visitors, making it one of the most serene soaking experiences in Iceland.

4. Húsavík: Hot Springs with a Side of Whale Watching

Húsavík is best known as Iceland’s whale-watching capital, but it also boasts some incredible geothermal waters. The Geosea Geothermal Sea Baths sit on the edge of a cliff, overlooking Skjálfandi Bay, offering a soak with a view. What makes these pools special is that they are filled with geothermal seawater—naturally warm, mineral-rich, and slightly salty.

Soaking in the hot water while scanning the horizon for whales? That’s an experience you can’t get anywhere else. Húsavík itself is a charming town, making it a great stop for those road-tripping around North Iceland.

Final Thoughts

The Blue Lagoon is famous for a reason—it’s a spectacular place, and I’d absolutely go back. But Iceland is a country filled with hot springs, many of which offer equally stunning experiences with fewer crowds and a deeper connection to the landscape. Whether you’re looking for oceanfront infinity pools, remote volcanic baths, or floating thermal lagoons, venturing beyond Reykjavik rewards you with some of the most unforgettable soaks of your life. So if you find yourself enchanted by Iceland’s geothermal magic, don’t stop at the Blue Lagoon. There’s a whole world of Icelandic hot springs waiting to be discovered!

Family Adventures at Sea: A Transatlantic Journey on the Queen Mary 2

Our family's transatlantic voyage aboard the Queen Mary 2 was an unforgettable experience of slow travel, where the ship itself became the destination. For seven days, we sailed across the Atlantic, enjoying timeless luxury — including afternoon tea at 3:30 pm, formal dinners and even ballroom dancing. I bought my son his first sport jacket for the trip, and he looked like such a young gentleman in it! The elegance of the Queen Mary 2, from its grand library to lectures on maritime history, made the trip feel unusual and special. As a family, we embraced the journey together. We took watercolor painting classes and fencing lessons, played paddle tennis on the deck and watched for whales every afternoon from the hot tub. It was a beautifully slow, shared adventure that we really savored. For those seeking a different kind of getaway, this voyage across the Atlantic offers something rare — a chance to slow down, reconnect and immerse yourself in the simple elegance of life at sea.

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The pinnacle of ocean cruising, where timeless elegance meets modern luxury on the high seas.

The Queen Mary 2 is known for its timeless luxury and impeccable service. Whether you're traveling as a couple or as a family, the boat offers something for everyone. For families with young children who might dread a long plane journey across the Atlantic, this crossing is a perfect alternative — combining adventure and elegance with plenty of activities to keep kids entertained. For us, it was the ideal way to slow down and enjoy time together as a family while experiencing the glamor of a bygone era.

Check-in:

Our check-in experience was remarkably smooth. From the moment we arrived at Brooklyn Port, it was clear that Cunard had mastered the art of efficient boarding. Despite the ship's size and the number of passengers, we were checked in and settled in our room within an hour, allowing us to begin our adventure without any hassle.

The room:

We opted for an inside cabin, thinking we’d spend most of our time exploring the ship, so it wouldn't matter if we didn't have a window. While the room was spacious and comfortable, with a fold-down bed for our son and two twin beds for us, we underestimated the importance of natural light. As the ship gradually adjusted its time zone by an hour each day, we had hoped to ease into the new time zone. But without natural light, it was difficult to stay on track. When we do this crossing again, we’ll definitely choose a room with a window or balcony. Aside from that, the room itself was perfect — immaculately clean and surprisingly roomy for a ship cabin. Our dedicated cleaners, one from India and one from the Philippines, were amazing. They were so friendly and kept our area absolutely spotless.

The boat:

The Queen Mary 2 is nothing short of a stunner. This ship exudes elegance, with stylish lounges, colorful art deco paintings and a modern art gallery that surprised us with how cool and interesting its collection was. Fresh flower arrangements greeted us in the Grand Lobby, where a pianist played in the afternoons, and every corner of the ship was beautifully maintained. There wasn’t a worn carpet or shabby seat covering in sight. Everything was elegant, yet comfortable. It's also filled with wonderful nooks and crannies, and one of my favorites was the library. The library is absolutely beautiful, with small clusters of leather chairs perfect for curling up with a book. And there are plenty of books to choose from — 8,000, in fact! We loved how the library wound around, giving us the feeling of exploring as we wandered through it. The spiral staircase inside the library is also really impressive and really adds to the sense of grandeur.

Food:

The food was consistently excellent. At dinner, we had a dedicated table, waiter, sommelier and dining time. It was lovely to stroll into the room and greet our waiter, Ryan, and to have our sommelier know us by name and remember what kind of wine we liked. Every dinner felt like fine dining, and we enjoyed the meals tremendously. The menu was different every day, too. We never actually made it to the more formal breakfast, because we were never all awake by the time it closed. Instead, we would make our way to the all-day buffet on the seventh floor. This was our go-to place for breakfast and lunch, and it was a casual and tasty way to eat these two meals. High tea was served every day at 3:30 on the dot by waiters with white gloves, offering tea alongside delectable little cakes, scones and sandwiches. The experience of being at high tea felt genteel and English, and we loved it. This was our son’s favorite "meal" of the day!

Onboard experiences:

With so many activities to choose from, we had to think carefully about how to spend our time. We spent some time lounging in deck chairs, reading and hopping between the pool and hot tub. But on other days, we were more ambitious. One of my favorite experiences was taking a watercolor class with my son, led by the ship’s resident artist. There was a fencing class available, too, which I don't think is very common on cruise ships. Meanwhile, my husband took part in the near-daily paddle tennis tournaments, even winning one with his partner!

The evening entertainment was another highlight. We saw a variety of shows, from comedians and musical performances to dance shows. The entertainment was consistently good, but one of the most unique aspects of our trip was that it was the Queen Mary 2’s 400th transatlantic crossing. To mark the occasion, there were special maritime lectures, including a talk by the man who designed the ship! One of my favorites was a session on the history of zeppelin travel, which included news that zeppelins might be making a comeback as a mode of transportation. Although these experts were brought on specifically for this special crossing, there is always an Insights Series featuring different expert lectures on all sorts of topics. We loved this aspect of the trip!

Spa:

The Queen Mary 2 boasts an incredible 20,000-square-foot spa. I visited the exclusive indoor thermal suite pool on deck seven, which requires an additional fee but was well worth it. The spa also includes steam rooms, saunas and a relaxation lounge. I also got an Elemis facial, which was an indulgent experience, delivered by a skilled aesthetician from South Africa. After spending two blissful hours there, I left feeling completely relaxed. The staff throughout the ship, including the spa, hail from all over the world, adding to the cosmopolitan atmosphere onboard. While the spa is luxurious and fabulous, the fitness room is on the lowest level of the boat and feels a bit like... a basement. That said, the fitness classes themselves were great and still very enjoyable.

Kids Club:

On the sixth floor, there is a wonderful dedicated Kids Club. It's large and filled with natural light, and has different zones inside it. They have an area with computers for kids to play video games. For my son, who tends to be quite restricted on his video game access, this was a real treat. They also have a huge selection of board games, activities like face paintings, and movie nights. It was a great place to hang out. We had to book it in advance, but it was never full, and we could do this at the last minute. We got into the habit of taking our son down to the Kids Club for a few hours after dinner. Meanwhile, my husband and I would go to one of the swanky lounges and enjoy a quiet cocktail by ourselves. It worked out great for all of us!

A quiet escape:

As much as we loved the planned activities, some of the best moments were the quieter ones. Our family spent a lot of time in the hot tub, chatting with fellow passengers and simply watching the horizon. It was here that we met some of the most well-traveled people, exchanging stories and learning about their adventures. One lovely woman told us about her time working for Queen Elizabeth and how she met her husband while he was singing karaoke in Florida. We also befriended a couple from Tennessee who live near country stars like Billy Ray Cyrus and Wynonna Judd — they shared how down-to-earth their famous neighbors are. A pair of financiers from Connecticut, seasoned travelers who frequently take back-to-back Cunard cruises, filled us in on their favorite routes around the world. One afternoon, while soaking in the hot tub and chatting with these fascinating people, we were all lucky enough to spot a pod of whales — a magical moment we won’t soon forget.

The vibe:

The Queen Mary 2 has a reputation for being a more formal boat, and this is true. It's also one of the reasons people choose the Queen Mary 2 over many other companies. The experience of being on board evokes a bygone era of elegance and glamor, where people dressed for dinner. It barely exists anymore, but it does on the Queen Mary. We didn't find this to be stuffy, though. Everyone was wonderfully friendly, including the other guests. But it did elevate the experience and added to the sense of charm and occasion that we felt with the entire crossing. For us, the ship provided the perfect balance of adventure, elegance and relaxation.

Conclusion:

The Queen Mary 2 provided our family with an unforgettable experience of luxury, adventure, and connection. It was the perfect way to cross the Atlantic, offering elegance and sophistication without sacrificing fun and relaxation. Whether you’re looking for an alternative to a long plane ride or simply want to experience the grandeur of a classic ocean liner, Cunard’s Queen Mary 2 is a fantastic choice for families, couples and travelers seeking something special. We can’t wait to sail again!

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Need to know

Lastly, Cunard now uses Starlink for internet access, and we found the charge to be very reasonable with excellent connectivity throughout the trip. You’ll use two online platforms during your journey: "MyCunard" for pre-boarding information and planning, and "MyVoyage" once on board for daily schedules and ship information.

This trip can either start in Southampton, England or in Brooklyn, New York. We have wonderful hotels in both locations. On the New York side, it’s worth spending a few days and catching a show on Broadway. Our family stayed at the historic Iroquois Hotel in the Theater District and saw Little Shop of Horrors the night before we sailed — it was such a fun way to start the trip! On the Southampton side, we visited nearby Stonehenge and stayed a few nights in Bristol at the elegant Marriott Hotel before flying back.

As a certified Commodore with Cunard — the highest level of training they offer — and I’m here to help you book your Cunard voyage and ensure you receive extra perks along the way. Let me take care of the details so you can experience the elegance and tradition of a Cunard transatlantic crossing on the Queen Mary 2!

Cunard’s Queen Mary 2 is the only true transatlantic ocean liner, not a typical cruise ship. It’s built to withstand rough seas, offering a distinctive and robust experience. While you won’t feel much movement on board, it’s still a good idea to bring seasickness medicine, just in case the seas get really rough.

If you’re concerned about jet lag, consider booking a room with windows or a balcony to help adjust naturally as the ship changes time zones. We traveled in late August and had great weather, but as we moved into the North Atlantic, it got cooler — so pack sweaters and warmer clothes to be prepared for different conditions.

Formal nights are a highlight of the journey. If you want to take part in the elegant evening events, be sure to bring formalwear. In addition to formal nights, there are two gala nights on every transatlantic crossing. Ours were "black and white" and "1920s," and people went all out — many men wore tuxedos, though my husband wore a suit and fit in just fine. If needed, tuxedos can be rented on board.

For families, if you plan to use the Kids Club, make sure to reserve a spot. It’s easy to do, even at the last minute. There are also many unique onboard activities like fencing lessons, lectures and daily high tea that add to the traditional charm of the ship.

This trip report is part of our ongoing series on travel to Brooklyn, New York. In need of further inspiration? Check out Jane Hermstedt’s guide, A Local’s Guide to a Perfect Summer Week in Patagonia's Lake District.

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Adventuring with Kids: Lessons & Tips from Our Semi-Nomadic Life

Our son, now nine, has already had some incredible adventures. For his 6th birthday, he went tandem paragliding in Patagonia! He has swum with penguins and baby hammerheads in the Galápagos, ridden horses through the dunes of the Sahara, rafted down rivers in Argentina, and even gone fly-in backcountry camping in Alaska—where a bear snuck into our camp at night and stole our food supply!  

He’s been fortunate to have these experiences, many of which are a by-product of our semi-nomadic lifestyle. I’ve seen how much they’ve benefited his development. He’s confident and capable while entering most situations, which is especially helpful as an expat kid navigating lots of tricky new environments—like starting 4th grade in a close-knit Spanish village, where most of his school day is in a regional language. He is quick to say "yes" to trying new things and loves being outdoors and exploring nature—all of which I believe are connected to many years of new experiences and adventures.

But here’s the thing: adventures don’t have to be far-flung or exotic to be meaningful—kids can benefit from all kinds of experiences, big or small. Whether it’s scrambling over rocks in a nearby national park or camping together in the backyard, doing something new together is great for the whole family. I once read that psychologists found new couples feel closer after doing new activities together—there’s something there for families too! Shared adventures bond us in ways nothing else can.

So, how do you make the most of adventures with kids? Here are 6 tips I’ve learned along the way:

1. Don’t Underestimate Your Kids
   Kids are naturally inclined toward adventure, even if they don't always show it. They have an innate curiosity and love for exploring the world. Give them the opportunity to embrace that. Whether it's hiking, climbing, or even just playing in the dirt, they thrive when they’re outside doing things. Don't be afraid to challenge them a bit—you may be surprised at what they can accomplish.

2. Plan Activities with Variety
   A lot of kids (even older ones) may not love walking on a straight, flat trail for long. Look for paths or destinations where the environment changes—like trails with rocks to climb on, streams to explore, or areas that bring a bit of unpredictability. These natural “adventure zones” will keep your kids engaged and curious.

3. Consider Private Guided Activities
   If you're doing a guided activity like a hike, rafting, or wildlife tour, consider going for a private experience. This way, you won’t feel pressured by other groups, and your kids can take their time to stop, explore, and interact with their surroundings. For example, my son loves turning over rocks and checking out insects—something that might slow down a larger group but brings him joy and wonder.

4. Talk About the Adventure Before It Happens
   Especially if you’re doing something new, build excitement before the activity. Show your kids videos of what they’ll be doing—bonus points if it features other kids, not just adults. Help them visualize how cool the experience will be. This can help ease nerves and get them pumped for the adventure ahead!

5. Accept That Family Adventures May Be Slower
   Doing an adventure as a family may take more time than if you were doing it with just adults. Don’t fight it, or the experience won't be fun for anybody; just plan for it. When we go hiking, for example, I usually double the estimated time, knowing we’ll want to stop and explore along the way. This is also why we try to get private guides whenever possible.

6. Bring Lots of Snacks and Take Breaks
   This might seem obvious, but it’s essential. Snacks can be a game-changer when energy starts to wane. Keep a stash of easy-to-eat snacks on hand and build in plenty of breaks. These pit stops aren’t just for food; they give kids a chance to rest, take in the scenery, and get excited about what’s next.

So go have some adventures with your kids, no matter where they take you. Whether it’s a big expedition or just exploring your backyard, every adventure is an opportunity to bond, learn, and grow together.

Ready to plan your next family adventure? Let me help you create unforgettable experiences. DM me for ideas, tips, or to start planning your journey today!

Summer Magic in Bariloche: Patagonia's Stunning Lake District

Bariloche might just be the most beautiful place on Earth. Nestled in Patagonia, this stunning destination is centered around the massive glacial Nahuel Huapi Lake, which comes alive in summer. Whether swimming in its crystal-clear waters, kayaking, fly fishing, or kitesurfing, there are endless outdoor activities. The surrounding area offers even more adventure, from white-water rafting to the unforgettable Seven Lakes Drive through pristine landscapes. Horseback riding across the Patagonian steppes, where legends like Butch Cassidy once roamed, provides a unique connection to this rugged land. World-class hiking trails let you fully appreciate the region’s natural beauty. And don't miss the iconic Llao Llao Hotel, a destination with its luxurious charm and breathtaking setting. Bariloche is easily accessible with its own international airport, making it a convenient gateway to this enchanting part of Patagonia. After living here for two years, trust me that summer in Bariloche is pure magic.

Things to do

• Horseback Riding at Carol Jones’ Ranch: Experience the stunning Patagonian steppe with a ride at Carol's ranch. You can opt for a river-side picnic lunch, and Carol has a wonderful selection of horses for all skill levels. I don’t think you can do better than Carol’s Ranch for a true Patagonian experience, which is why this one is at the top of the list. For more information, visit Carol's website.

• River Rafting on the Manso River: Experience family-friendly rafting on the stunning Manso River. Glide through crystal-clear waters surrounded by breathtaking Patagonian landscapes. The gentle rapids offer a perfect balance of excitement and tranquility, making it an ideal choice for adventurers of all ages. This is one of Bariloche’s most beautiful rivers.

• Hiking: Bariloche is a hiker's paradise in the summer! Trek to Cerro Campanario for spectacular panoramic views of the surrounding lakes and mountains. It's an easy thirty-minute hike and an ideal spot for taking in the expansive Patagonian landscape. Cerro Lopez offers a chance to see majestic condors soaring overhead while you hike through stunning scenery. Finally, venture to Refugio Frey, where the longer trail rewards you with the raw beauty of Patagonia, including its rugged peaks and serene lakes.

• World-Class Kite-Surfing and Windsurfing: Experience the exhilaration of kite-surfing and windsurfing on Nahuel Huapi Lake. A world-class destination renowned for its vast, glacial waters and ideal wind conditions. Whether you’re experienced or just starting out, lessons are available to help you master the sports. These are thrilling ways to connect with the stunning natural beauty of Patagonia!

• Kayaking: Paddle through the crystal-clear waters of Bariloche's massive Nahuel Huapi Lake with guided kayaking tours that showcase the region’s stunning scenery. Explore hidden coves and even historical sites, like homes used by Nazis who fled Germany. Or just rent a kayak and go for a paddle on your own. The clarity of the water offers an incredible view of the world beneath the lake.

• Sailing to Victoria Island: Rent a sailboat or join a guided tour to explore Victoria Island, renowned for its tranquil natural beauty and diverse landscapes. Enjoy lush forests, serene lakes, and captivating mountain views as you sail around this peaceful island. It’s the perfect escape into nature, offering a serene environment and scenery that will leave you refreshed and inspired.

• Fly Fishing in the Manso River and Traful River: Experience world-class fly fishing in the pristine waters of the Manso River and Traful River. Both are renowned for their abundant trout and stunning natural surroundings. Expert local guides are available to provide insights and techniques, ensuring an unforgettable fishing experience.

• Explore Downtown Bariloche: When you want a break from outdoor adventures, wander through the charming downtown area, known for its Swiss-style architecture and lively atmosphere. Make sure you visit Rapa Nui, a favorite local spot known for its delicious handmade chocolates and gelato. It’s an ideal place to treat yourself in the heart of Bariloche!

Day Trips:

• Seven Lakes Drive: Set out on the leisurely Seven Lakes Drive, a stunning route that starts in Bariloche and stretches for about 100 kilometers (62 miles) to San Martín de los Andes. This scenic drive takes you past seven breathtaking glacial lakes, each with its own unique charm. Along the way, you'll find plenty of spots to stop and soak in the views or enjoy a picnic by the lake. The drive ends in San Martín de los Andes, and I highly recommend spending a few nights here. It’s a perfect way to extend your Patagonian adventure and enjoy everything this charming area has to offer.

• Explore El Bolsón and Its Labyrinth: Just a short drive from Bariloche, El Bolsón is a charming town with a laid-back, almost hippie vibe and stunning scenery. Known for its thriving artisan community and local markets overflowing with handmade crafts and organic goods, it’s a wonderful stop on your Patagonian adventure. Definitely don’t miss the El Bolsón Labyrinth! It's a fantastic place for the whole family, combining a playful maze experience with stunning mountain views.

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Places to eat & drink in Argentine Patagonia

Steak Restaurants

• Tony’s Restaurante: This is my family’s absolute favorite place for a succulent steak in Bariloche! The meat quality is exceptional, and is expertly cooked over an open grill to deliver rich, smoky flavors and tender texture. The restaurant’s casual ambiance, attentive service, and reputation for consistently delivering top-notch steaks make it a standout choice for steak lovers in Bariloche. Tony will probably come out and chat with you!

• El Boliche de Alberto: Another phenomenal place for steak in Bariloche. El Boliche is also known for using high-quality cuts of meat, excellent preparation, and authentic Argentine flavors. It has a casual, rustic vibe and the emphasis is on delivering traditional Argentine barbecue in an unpretentious setting.

Breweries

• Patagonia Brewery: Patagonia Brewery is a wonderful place for visitors due to its exceptional craft beers and stunning setting. This is where locals go when they want to enjoy beer and food with a view! It combination of delicious, locally brewed beers, good food, and jaw-dropping vistas is hard to beat. Patagonia Brewery’s standout beer is Patagonia Amber Lager, which is known for its smooth flavor, rich amber color, and caramel notes. Reservations are highly recommended to ensure a spot, and can be easily made online through their official website. If you’re going for dinner, make sure you get there early enough to enjoy the view!

• Cervecería Gilbert: If you enjoy craft beer, Cervecería Gilbert in Bariloche is another good option. They offer a range of innovative brews, and it’s a perfect place to relax after a day of skiing. Their food menu features delicious options like gourmet burgers, flavorful pizzas, and tasty tapas that pair perfectly with their beers. It’s a great spot to hang out with friends and savor excellent beer and satisfying food. Making a reservation is a good idea, but you can often get a table without one.

• Cervecería Manush: For families with children, Manush is a really nice option. It’s super family-friendly with a great outdoor play area where the little ones can run around while you keep an eye on them from the nearby tables. With its great location, tasty food, and fun setup, it's perfect for families looking to relax and enjoy a good time together. And the best part? Locals just bundle up and go no matter the season; you can, too! Making a reservation in advance can be a good idea, but you can often show up without one and still get a table.

Fine Dining

• Restaurant Llao Llao: Located in the iconic Llao Llao Hotel, it provides a refined dining experience amid the Patagonian landscape. The menu features local specialties, including tender lamb, beef, and trout, alongside a selection of international dishes. Emphasizing seasonal ingredients, the restaurant crafts dishes that highlight fresh, regional produce. Guests can also enjoy a variety of elegant desserts and a curated wine list of local and international selections. With its luxurious setting and gourmet offerings, Restaurant Llao Llao is perfect for a memorable and sophisticated meal. Reservations are recommended.

• Mimi’s Restaurante: Mimi’s is a particularly delightful choice for a romantic date in Bariloche. Thanks to its cozy, elegant atmosphere. The restaurant offers a refined menu with a range of delicious Argentine dishes and fine wines, creating a perfect setting for an intimate evening. Reservations are advised. Very recommended for a special night out!

• El Regional: Known for its elegant ambiance and gourmet Argentine cuisine, El Regional offers a refined dining experience with tasty local specialties.

• La Costa del Pueblo: This restaurant combines an elegant atmosphere with high-quality, beautifully presented dishes. It’s a great spot for a special occasion, offering everything from fine steaks to seafood.

• Kandahar: For non-Argentine fine dining in Bariloche, Kandahar stands out. It offers a sophisticated menu that blends international cuisine with local ingredients, featuring dishes that cater to diverse tastes. The restaurant’s upscale setting and inventive approach to dining. This makes it an excellent choice for those looking for a refined dining experience that goes beyond traditional Argentine fare.

Brunch

• Quiven: Quiven is a fabulous little restaurant in Bariloche, ideally situated overlooking the Nahuel Huapi Lake. It offers breathtaking views of the surrounding mountains and lakes. It has a chic and relaxed atmosphere, and stands out with its set brunch, which includes a selection of gourmet dishes complemented by a glass of champagne. This luxurious brunch experience is perfect for a special outing, allowing you to savor high-quality food while enjoying the stunning natural scenery. Super recommended!

Outdoor dining

• Cirse: Cirse in Bariloche offers a laid-back dining experience with its outdoor food-truck-style setup right on the lake. Set in a charming, open-air environment, it serves a variety of gourmet dishes made from fresh, local ingredients. It's a local favorite, with plenty of space for kids to run around while parents enjoy a relaxed meal with stunning lake views and the fresh mountain air. Sometimes, you might even catch some live music, adding to the fun and lively atmosphere.

California Coast: The Ultimate Road Trip

Image courtesy of 1 Hotel West Hollywood

A perfect road trip requires great views and even better stops along the way. Driving down the California coast checks both boxes; it’s difficult to think of a better road trip route in the U.S.  There are many ways to go about this, but the following route is a tried-and-true favorite.

Start in Los Angeles. From there, you’ll make your way up to Santa Barbara, through Big Sur and Carmel and end in San Francisco. The best part is that the route offers a little bit of everything: big cities and coastal villages, natural scenery and urban jungles, rustic escapes and ritzy getaways. You can certainly extend your trip. For example, start further south in San Diego. Or, take a detour to Napa Valley.

Below is a sampling of places to stay, things to do and where to eat on your road trip. This by no means is an exhaustive list, and the best part about road trips is that you get to go at your own pace. You can stop here, skip that, linger there. You are in control. When you connect with me, I’ll provide a more tailored itinerary complete with suggestions specific to your preferences. But in the meantime, consider the below a little travel inspiration to get the creative juices flowing. 

Need to know:

Airports: Los Angeles International Airport (LAX), San Francisco International Airport (SFO)

Transportation: Rent whichever car your heart desires. I can help you book this.

Best time to visit: The beauty of California is that virtually any time of year brings great weather. In Northern California, it does get a bit wetter and chillier in the winter, but spring and early summer, as well as fall, are particularly lovely. No matter the season, layers are always a good idea (for example, even in the summer, temperatures drop at nighttime in the desert climates).

Ideal length of stay: At a minimum, three to five days, depending on how long or far you want to go. A week is more the sweet spot: make sure you leave time for spontaneity. Now is not the time to rush.

Dress code: Comfy car clothes (if you’re feeling fancy, throw in an ascot), linen overalls with Birkenstocks, ample hiking gear and some light layers for anywhere other than Southern California.

Los Angeles & Santa Monica

LA and the neighboring Santa Monica offer something for everyone. There are beaches, of course, as well as Santa Monica’s whimsical pier. There are Michelin-Starred restaurants, local gems, breezy cafés and food trucks representing an impressive array of cultures. The shopping is top-notch, as is the nightlife. When you visit, it’s difficult not to inhabit some of the area’s laid-back vibes.

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Where to stay in LA & Santa Monica

1 Hotel West Hollywood: An eco-chic oasis that marries luxury and sustainability. Fora Perks include $100 hotel credit, $60 daily breakfast credit, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Oceana Santa Monica: A luxurious Santa Monica stay comprised exclusively of suites. Book with me to snag VIP Hilton Impresario partner perks like $100 hotel credit, breakfast daily for two and an upgrade.

Fairmont Miramar Hotels & Bungalows: A historic beachfront stay that harks back to early Hollywood glamor. Book with me to unlock Accor STEP partner perks, including hotel credit, a welcome amenity, breakfast daily for two, un upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Shutters on the Beach: Playful New-England chic with a privileged beachfront location. Fora perks include $100 food / beverage credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Casa del Mar: Beachy vibes, a Mediterranean aesthetic and local art characterize this serene Santa Monica retreat. Book with me to receive $100 food / beverage credit, $80 daily breakfast credit, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Santa Monica Proper: Exceptionally chic, with an eye for breezy design and an Ayurvedic spa. When you book with me, you’ll receive $50 hotel credit, $50 daily breakfast credit, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Palihouse West Hollywood: Boutique luxury in WeHo, a hip neighborhood full of energy. Fora’s exclusive Palisociety partner perks include a welcome amenity, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

L'Ermitage Beverly Hills: A discreet, under-the-radar hit with sophisticated taste. Fora's partner perks include $100 food / beverage credit, daily breakfast for two, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

The Maybourne Beverly Hills: Effortlessly Californian, with curated artwork and a west-coast Dante outpost. Book with me to unlock $100 hotel credit, $45 daily breakfast credit, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Beverly Wilshire, A Four Seasons Hotel: A luxury icon with an ideal location. When you book Four Seasons with me, you’ll enjoy exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner amenities. I’ll be pleased to give you more details.

The Peninsula Beverly Hills: An elegant stay with a rooftop garden and afternoon tea. Fora's VIP PenClub partner perks include $100 hotel credit, a welcome amenity, breakfast daily for two, a guaranteed upgrade and check-in/out anytime (as early as 6 am and as late as 10 pm).

The Beverly Hills Hotel: A classic for a reason; the neighborhood was named after the hotel. Fora's exclusive Dorchester Diamond Club perks include $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast for two, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

What to do in LA & Santa Monica

When in Santa Monica, its famed pier is a must, if only to stroll along the nearby stretch of beach. Window shop along Rodeo Drive, rent a bike and ride along the coast (Boardwalk Bike Rentals is right off the pier) or embark on any one of the numerous hikes in the area, which always afford stunning views. If you’re into art, The Getty, Hammer Museum, the Museum of Contemporary Art (MOCA), The Broad and the Gagosian do not disappoint. 

Where to eat in LA & Santa Monica

Get your matcha or coffee fix at La La Land Café, your wellness fix at the famed organic mecca Erewhon Market and your traditional-Italian-deli fix at Bay Cities Italian Deli & Bakery. Locals love SUGARFISH for fresh sushi that adheres strictly to Nozawa tradition (no rolls here) and Huckleberry Café for pastries and satisfying (and fresh) deli fare. Head to the Cheese Store, in Beverly Hills, for curated cheese boards and tasty bites. Funke is a foodie’s paradise offering hand-made pasta, while Sushi Note Omakase is a new 14-seat restaurant serving a 20-course meal highlighting the finest Japanese ingredients. Other top picks include Capo, an intimate, art-filled Italian gem; Cassia, a stylish French-Asian brasserie; Felix, which serves California-fresh pizza, pasta and verdure; and Gjusta, a beloved Venice deli the baklava croissants are mandatory. (And don't miss Venice's casual sister restaurant Gjelina, for market-driven cuisine served morning 'til night.)

Santa Barbara

The drive from LA to Santa Barbara, on a decent travel day, can take just under two hours (but always allow an LA-traffic buffer). Santa Barbara offers the best of both worlds: mountains and beach. Nature lovers will be especially happy here. The natural landscape is stunning (and perfect for hikes). It’s no surprise the area, especially Montecito, is such a celebrity magnet. Expect rolling vineyards, luxury everything, farm-to-table cuisine and a glamorous vibe.

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Where to stay in Santa Barbara 

El Encanto, A Belmond Hotel, Santa Barbara: Elegant, Spanish-inspired accommodations, five-star service and farm-to-table dining make this hillside retreat one of Santa Barbara’s chicest escapes. Fora’s VIP Belmond Bellini perks include $90 hotel credit, welcome amenities, daily breakfast for two and an upgrade.

Rosewood Miramar Beach: An airy, sophisticated beachfront stay with locally sourced dining, a spa and bicycles for rent. Book with me to unlock Rosewood Elite perks. 

San Ysidro Ranch: An exclusive stay comprised of 38 cottages among citrus and olive groves. Book with me to snag $100 hotel credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Palihouse Santa Barbara: A charming 24-room getaway with a garden café and cocktail bar. Fora’s exclusive Palisociety partner perks include a welcome amenity, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Four Seasons Resort The Biltmore Santa Barbara (reopening fall 2024): Laid-back luxury in a nature-filled enclave. When you book Four Seasons with me, you’ll enjoy exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner amenities. I’ll be pleased to give you more details.

What to do in Santa Barbara 

Santa Barbara is a hiker’s paradise. The combination of beaches and mountains here is unmatched, and makes for the perfect active environment. The famed Funk Zone is a hip area marked by contemporary galleries, boutiques, tasting rooms and graffiti murals. The Santa Barbara Museum Of Art shows work spanning five centuries, from numerous cultures. For an extra dose of nature, head to Lotusland and the Santa Barbara Botanic Garden, which are brimming with exotic plants and native flora, respectively.

Where to eat in Santa Barbara 

Satisfy your sweet tooth at Rori's Artisanal Creamery, where everything — cones, cookies, candies — is homemade. Caruso's, at the Rosewood, serves locally sourced, Michelin-Starred cuisine inspired by Italy and California’s bounty. The vegetarian hotspot Oliver’s offers gourmet fare like wild mushroom tostadas and heirloom tomatoes paired with macadamia ricotta, while Bettina’s is a fun neighborhood joint  known for their naturally leavened pizzas. Santa Barbara boasts some excellent Mexican food. The hip, buzzy Santo Mezcal and the no-frills La Super-Rica Taqueria are great options. Try the farm-to-table Spanish cuisine at Loquita, and the flavorful mix of French and Ethiopian food at Petit Valentin. Head to Convivo Restaurant & Bar for an elevated Italian dinner with a view. For Southeast Asian cuisine served in a warm, inviting space, SamaSama is a must. And for well-soured seafood, you can't go wrong with Boathouse at Hendry's Beach.

Big Sur & Carmel

About five hours up the coast from Santa Barbara is Big Sur, which stretches from Carmel to San Simeon. Big Sur is known for its rugged coastline and sublime ocean views. It’s a must on any Californian road trip. In fact, its winding road that lines the coast is a landmark in and of itself. State parks and lush mountains call for hiking and camping, while charming coastal towns offer inviting boutique shops and cozy restaurants. Exploring this area of the Californian coast provides a lovely, more low-key contrast to your previous urban stops.

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Where to stay in Big Sur & Carmel

Post Ranch Inn: An adults-only cliffside resort where sprawling suites come sans television and with giant windows framing the stunning natural surroundings. Book with me to unlock $100 resort credit, breakfast daily for two, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Alila Ventana Big Sur: An all-inclusive retreat that helps guests get in touch with nature and themselves. Fora’s VIP Hyatt Privé perks include $100 resort credit, a welcome amenity, breakfast daily for two, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Carmel Valley Ranch: 500 acres with activities galore. Fora’s VIP Hyatt Privé perks include $100 resort credit, a welcome amenity, breakfast daily for two, an upgrade and early check-in.

Villa Mara Carmel: Boutique luxury with 16 rooms and a minimalist-chic aesthetic. Connect with me to see how I can level up your stay here.

What to do in Big Sur & Carmel

Big Sur is a natural playground. Hike, go for a jog, forest bathe and marvel at the region’s beauty. If you don’t know where to start, Point Lobos State Natural Reserve is a fool-proof option. Photographers Edward Weston and Ansel Adams favored the area. In Carmel, wander among the town’s numerous art galleries, boutiques and wine-tasting rooms. History buffs will enjoy the Carmel Mission, a restored 18th-century church, while outdoors enthusiasts will want to explore the various jogging routes, perfect for a run by the coast. After a day of activity, unwind at the heavenly Refuge Spa.

Where to eat in Big Sur & Carmel

The rustic Big Sur Bakery serves wood-fired sourdough and locally sourced nourishment out of an intimate ranch-style home. The stylish Sierra Mar, Post Ranch Inn’s cliffside restaurant, is ideal for a romantic evening accompanied by gourmet farm-to-table fare and an extensive wine list. The tasting-menu gem Aubergine is cozy and stylish, and their dessert game is strong. At the family-run Cultura Carmel, Oaxaca’s rich culinary tradition takes center stage, complete with meticulously sourced ingredients. And at the quaint, rustic-chic Casanova, you’ll be treated to French-Italian cuisine served by an incredibly warm, inviting staff.   

San Francisco

Depending on traffic, the drive from Carmel to San Francisco will likely take anywhere from two to four hours. But it will be worth it: San Francisco's eclectic personality and dynamism cannot be matched. The city is a technological hub, but also boasts a slate of unique neighborhoods — from the historic Haight-Ashbury to the posh Pacific Heights and so much more — whose restaurants, boutiques and bars confer a distinct local feel. Here, you can get both your big-city fix and encounter that small-town, neighborhoody feel that makes SF so special.

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Where to stay in San Francisco 

1 Hotel San Francisco: Nature-inspired serenity in the heart of the Embarcadero. Fora’s VIP partner perks include $100 food / beverage or spa credit, $30 daily breakfast credit, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Palihotel San Francisco: A hip spot with a cool local vibe. Fora’s exclusive partner perks include a welcome amenity, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco: Centrally located sophistication with a top-tier concierge team. When you book Four Seasons with me, you’ll enjoy exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner amenities. I’ll be pleased to give you more details.

San Francisco Proper: The Proper’s flagship property, punctuated with tastefully vibrant textures and colors. Book with me to receive $25 food / beverage credit, welcome treats, an upgrade and late check-out.

What to do in San Francisco 

Kids and anyone looking to indulge their curiosity will love San Francisco’s Exploratorium, an interactive museum that allows visitors to probe everything from astronomy and chemistry to perception and physics. The Yerba Buena Center for the Arts displays contemporary work and champions community, while the de Young Museum, in Golden Gate Park, shows art from the 17th century up to the present. View the Golden Gate Bridge from Presidio National Park, and explore the area’s hiking trails and walking paths. Unwind with a well-deserved Tata Harper facial at Credo Beauty, or with a massage at the zen SenSpa.

Where to eat in San Francisco

If San Francisco is known for anything, it’s food. The city is blessed by fresh Californian produce and vibrant global influences. Head to the stylish mainstay Flour + Water for delectable pastas and wood-fired pizza. If you’re craving more pasta, SPQR, a gem of a space with a well-curated menu, more than delivers. The beloved Nopa is a farm-to-table classic. (Its sister restaurant Nopalita is great for nourishing Mexican food in casual digs.) Quince, with its three Michelin Stars, is a destination in and of itself, as is Mister Jiu’s, whose contemporary Chinese tasting menu reflects the region’s seasonal bounty. Head to the Michelin-Starred State Bird Provisions for a dim-sum-style cuisine served in a sleek, laid-back space. Kokkari Estiatorio makes you feel as though you’ve been transported to Greece. And the sexy mourad puts a refined spin on Moroccan cuisine.

This may be information overload, but that's where I come in. Above is just a taste of all that the California coast offers. Connect with me for a tailored trip. I'll work to understand your vibe and what you're after, and design your dream California road trip, complete with VIP perks and priority status at the state's best hotels. Cali's calling, and I've got your back.

Madrid: The Heart of Spain’s History and Culture

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After visiting Madrid once, you'll be dreaming of when you can return. Its vast and varied collection of galleries and museums display art dating from prehistory all the way up to the present day. Grand, architecturally beautiful buildings frame tree-lined boulevards. And lively parks and green spaces provide a nature-filled respite from the city’s palpable energy. 

Foodies will delight in Madrid’s impressive gastronomic scene. Lively, rustic-chic tapas bars and tabernas serve deceptively simple fare, best paired with a refreshing glass of local vino. Haute cuisine is served in the most unassuming of joints, while elegant Michelin Stars and gourmet markets abound. 

Madrid is also the perfect gateway to Spain, the ideal starting point before venturing off to Seville, Grenada, Barcelona, Menorca, Ibiza, Mallorca...

Below is a mere sampling of all Madrid has to offer. Connect with me to plan a personalized trip tailored to your unique interests and travel style. In a city this big, and this full of hidden gems and places to explore, I won’t lead you astray.

The quick and dirty:

Currency: €, Euro (EUR)

Languages: Spanish

Airport: Adolfo Suárez Madrid–Barajas Airport (MAD)

Transportation: The Madrid Metro is the most economical and efficient way to traverse the city and its suburbs. Taxis, buses and bike rentals are also available.

Best time to visit: Madrid can be beautiful year round. Summers tend to be very hot, and the busiest time of year for tourists. Spring is particularly lovely, as everything begins to bloom. In March and April, expect some rain here and there. During fall, temperatures are mild and pleasant, while November and December tend to be the coldest and wettest months (although January tends to be the coldest, and may see some snowfall).

Ideal length of stay: Three nights in Madrid is perfect. But if you choose to stay longer — say five to seven days — there is more than enough to see, explore and enjoy.

Signature dishes: cocido madrileño (chickpea, meat and vegetable stew), tortilla de patatas (egg-and-potato omelet), gambas al ajillo (garlicky shrimp), patatas bravas (fried potatoes with spicy tomato sauce)

Key phrases: por favor (please), gracias (thank you), buenos dias (good morning), buenas tardes (good afternoon), buenas noches (good night)

Dress code: put-together, smart and chic — you can’t go wrong with a pair of Vejas, a crisp button-up and your favorite statement sunnies

Sol-Gran Vía, Austrias & La Latina

The bustling Sol-Gran Vía and Austrias neighborhoods are located within Centro, an area home to Madrid’s most popular tourist attractions. Austrias is Madrid’s oldest section, brimming with elegant architecture.

Sol-Gran Vía is delineated by two important landmarks: Puerta del Sol and Gran Vía. The latter is Madrid’s most famous street, lined with tons of shops, hotels and classical architecture. (Sol is especially well known for its tree-lined streets and high-end shopping. Don't miss Calle de Serrano, the 5th Avenue of Madrid.) Puerta del Sol, a historic public square, contains several notable statues and a famous clock, housed in the 18th-century Real Casa de Correos.

La Latina, which dates back to the Middle Ages, is fun and dynamic, filled with tapas bars, winding streets and public squares.

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Where to stay in Sol-Gran Vía, Austrias & La Latina

Four Seasons Hotel Madrid: An opulent stay composed of seven historic buildings, complete with epic rooftop views. When you book Four Seasons through me, you’ll enjoy exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner benefits. I’ll be pleased to give you more details.

Hotel Urban: Modern, art-filled and design-forward, with a Michelin-Starred restaurant to boot. Book with me to snag €40 food / beverage credit, complimentary welcome drinks, an upgrade and late check-out.

Image courtesy of Palacio de los Duques, a Gran Meliá Hotel

Palacio de los Duques, a Gran Meliá Hotel: An elegant 19th-century palace inspired by the work of Velázquez. Fora’s VIP partner perks include complimentary access to the Red Level Lounge, daily breakfast for two, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Pestana CR7 Gran Vía: A youthful, centrally located stay steps away from the Royal Palace. Book with me to receive welcome treats, daily breakfast for two and an upgrade.

What to do in Sol-Gran Vía, Austrias & La Latina

Plaza Mayor, in Austrias, is perfect for watching the various street performers, souvenir shopping and enjoying a refreshment al fresco. Explore the nearby Mercado de San Miguel for fine Spanish ingredients (fresh fish, cheese, jamón ibérico) as well as an array of food stalls. The sprawling Royal Palace of Madrid and the ​​Catedral de la Almudena are ultra-popular sites, but for good reason. Matadero, the city’s former slaughterhouse and livestock market, is a cultural institution that shows multimedia work.

Where to eat in Sol-Gran Vía, Austrias & La Latina

Grupo Tragaluz knows a thing or two about curating lively places to eat, and Ana la Santa (brekkie, tapas, paella) and Bosco de Lobos (pizza and pasta) do not disappoint. Enjoy fresh fish and fine wine amid exposed rustic wooden beams at the cozy Vinoteca Moratín and seasonal Spanish cuisine at the intimate La Tasquita de Enfrente. Head to Jerónimo, at The Madrid EDITION, for shareable Mexican fare in a sophisticated, vibrant setting. At Oroya, also at the EDITION, Peruvian chef Diego Muñoz prepares seasonal cuisine inspired by the Incas and global cultures (bonito with pickled turnip, salted potatoes with fried cheese…). In La Latina, be sure to stop by the bilevel Mercado de la Cebada, as well as Casa Lucio, an old-school restaurant that's as traditional as they come.

Malasaña & Chueca

Malasaña, a youthful, hipster neighborhood, is home to numerous vintage shops. Tasteful graffiti only augments Malasaña’s cool vibe, as does its renowned nightlife scene. It used to be a part of town to avoid, but today it's young, affordable and cool. Much of the area’s edge can be attributed to its rebellious history. The neighborhood’s central Plaza del Dos de Mayo stands as a monument to the rebellion against Napoleon’s occupation of Spain in the early 19th century. And Malasaña itself is named after Manuela Malasaña, a victim of the famed May 2, 1808 uprising of the Spanish against the French. The neighboring Chueca is Madrid's LGBTQ+ neighborhood, akin to Manhattan's Chelsea. Here is where to go to experience some of Madrid's best nightlife. And if you happen to be in town during the end of June and beginning of July, Chueca is also the best area to experience Orgullo Gay de Madrid, or Madrid's Pride.

Where to stay in Malasaña & Chueca

Connect with me to rent a charming, tasteful home in the heart of Malasaña and Chueca.

What to do in Malasaña & Chueca

Peruse the various thrift shops and record stores. Enjoy the vibrant after-hours music scene, and bar-hop until you find a spot that fits your vibe. Classic plays get a modern twist at Teatro Victoria, and at Museo Municipal de Arte Contemporáneo, you can see the reconstruction of the office of Ramón Gómez de la Serna, a notable avant-garde writer. The 18th-century Palacio de Liria houses artwork from the likes of Goya, Rubens, Velázquez, El Greco and others. Plus, it’s a study in regal neoclassical architecture. You must not miss Chueca's Mercado de San Antón, with its vibrant combination of food shops plus restaurants. Many Madrileños spend time there, and the area is the perfect spot to kick off a fun night out.

Where to eat in Malasaña & Chueca

For delectable pizzas made from Italian-sourced ingredients, the chic Sakro delivers. Vegans and vegetarians will delight in Superchulo, while coffee lovers and connoisseurs of quality sourcing mustn’t miss the hip Misión Café. Head to Panic Bakery for some of the best sourdough bread around, and to 1862 Dry Bar for world-renowned cocktails in a lively space. At the moody, dimly lit Yugo, savor Michelin-Starred Japanese fare in its izakaya-style main room or in its subterranean recreation of a World War II bunker. 

Salamanca

If you love shopping, then head straight to Salamanca. Luxury shopping is the name of the game here, but there are also shops for all styles and budgets. It’s also very residential, boasting some of Madrid’s most valuable real estate.

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Where to stay in Salamanca

Rosewood Villa Magna: A handsome refurbished stay with great service and a local feel. Book with me to receive Fora’s VIP Rosewood Elite perks, including €110 hotel credit, a welcome amenity, daily breakfast for two, an upgrade and extended check-in/out. 

BLESS Hotel Madrid: Trendy and eclectic, with tastefully quirky rooms and meeting spaces. 

What to do in Salamanca

Shopping is the main draw, of course, but the Museo Arqueólogico Nacional, with work from prehistory all the way up to the 19th century, and the Museo Lázaro Galdiano, which shows work from the likes of Bosch and Goya, are also worth a visit.

Where to eat in Salamanca

El Pescador serves the freshest seafood, all of which is wild. Ten Con Ten is a see-and-be-seen haunt, offering elegant Spanish dishes as well as pasta, seafood and meats. Inventive Spanish cuisine is served at the casual, cozy Taberna Recreo Espartinas, while the menu at the trendy Amazónico features an eclectic array of dishes, from fragrant lamb kofta and fried plantains to char-grilled fish and sushi. For additionally gourmet Spanish cuisine, opt for Tatel, a handsome restaurant owned by Rafa Nadal, Pau Gasol and Enrique Iglesias.

Chamberí

The Chamberí district, itself comprised of six neighborhoods, is a more residential part of town. It’s also a foodie’s paradise, brimming with hip tapas bars, markets and Michelin-Starred restaurants. You won’t find many tourists here, and that’s part of its beauty. 

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Where to stay in Chamberí

URSO Hotel & Spa: An exceptionally charming, beautifully designed stay in the perfect location (quiet, but close to all the local action). Fora’s SLH withIN partner perks include $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast for two, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

InterContinental Madrid: A contemporary, refined homebase for exploring Madrid's chicest neighborhoods. Fora's IHG Luxury partner perks include $100 hotel credit, a welcome amenity, breakfast daily for two, an upgrade and late check-out.

What to do in Chamberí

The charming neighborhood is perfect for wandering. Explore its local boutiques, or jog around the sprawling Parque de Santander, a delightful green space complete with ponds, fountains, volleyball courts, children’s play areas, a sports complex and more. Browse the work of Spanish artist Joaquín Sorolla at Museo Sorolla, located within the painter’s former home and studio. If theater is your thing, a chow at Teatros del Canal will not disappoint. For something especially unique, don’t miss the Museo Geominero, which displays minerals and fossils from Spanish regions and formerly Spanish-ruled regions. 

Where to eat in Chamberí

Chamberí is a foodie’s paradise, and many Madrileños flock to the neighborhood for a fun (and delicious) night out. The community-focused Mercado de Vallehermoso is a must for sampling and purchasing thoughtfully sourced ingredients (spices, butter, sausage, cheese, fruit, fish…). It's also where to find some of the city’s best restaurants, hiding in plain sight. For a gourmet tasting menu experience in a stylish, relaxed setting, head to Bichopalo or La Tasquería. The market-driven Calisto is great for a special-occasion dinner, as is the elegant Virrey. The hip Sala de Despiece serves ingredient-driven tapas in a lively, casual atmosphere. Try the artichoke with caviar and avocado as well as the lion’s mane mushroom with leek and honey. And at the colorful Lúa, traditional Galician cuisine gets a modern twist.

Paseo del Arte & Retiro

These neighboring areas are the ideal neighborhood couple: Paseo del Arte is an art-lover’s dream, while Retiro is home to the Parque del Retiro, which was designed in the 16th century and is today Madrid’s main green space. 

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Where to stay in Paseo del Arte & Retiro 

Mandarin Oriental Ritz: A luxury Belle-Époque marvel just off the park. Book with me to receive Fora’s Fan Club partner perks, including $100 food / beverage or spa credit, a welcome amenity, daily breakfast for two and an upgrade.

What to do in Paseo del Arte & Retiro 

Paseo del Arte is where to indulge your museum dreams — in particular, that of Museo Nacional del Prado, arguably Spain’s most important art museum. Museo Nacional Centro de Arte Reina Sofía is a must-stop for contemporary art. Also don’t miss the Museo Nacional Thyssen-Bornemisza and its vast collection, which includes work from across seven centuries (Van Eyck, Caravaggio, Rembrandt, O'Keeffe, Hopper…). In Retiro, booklovers should make a beeline to Cuesta de Moyano, a second-hand bookstore. And if you happen to be in Madrid from the end of May to mid-June, the Madrid Book Fair is held in Retiro’s gorgeous park.

Where to eat in Paseo del Arte & Retiro 

Taberna Pedraza is a welcoming, tasteful spot serving a gastronomic menu highlighting meticulously sourced products. For old-school, ultra-refined fare (foie gras, caviar), you’ll love the elegant Horcher. Additional elegance can be found at the Mandarin Oriental: Deessa, their signature restaurant, boasts two Michelin Stars, while the all-day Palm Court offers refined yet casual fare beneath a crystal-canopy ceiling. 

This may be information overload, but that's where I come in. Above is just a taste of all that Madrid offers. Connect with me for a tailored trip. I'll work to understand your vibe and what you're after, and design your dream Madrid getaway, complete with VIP perks and priority status at the city's best hotels. Madrid is calling, and I've got your back.

An Insider's Guide to Where to Eat, Stay & Play in Morocco

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If you’re looking to be enchanted, consider Morocco. The country offers a bit of everything: dynamic multiculturalism, stunning architecture, vibrant cities, beaches, nature escapes…Whatever your travel style, Morocco more than delivers.

Meander the maze-like souks, marketplaces and medinas (historical districts) of the country’s urban centers, from Casablanca to Fez, Marrakech to Essaouira. Savor fragrant tagines, herbal teas, fresh seafood and spices galore. Marvel at the intricate tilework and calligraphy that adorns much of Morocco’s buildings. Relax in a traditional hammam. Hike the Atlas Mountains. You won’t be at a loss for things to enjoy.

Morocco offers so much, and you'll want to build out your itinerary based on the time you have available, as well as your goals for what you want to see. Below, I’ve put together a sample itinerary of a few favorite places to visit, plus where to stay, what to do and where to eat in each location. (The country's allure extends well beyond these spots.) If you're flying from the States and want to stick to a direct flight, you’ll fly into Casablanca, Morocco’s commercial hub. From New York City, it's only a seven-hour flight. You can also opt for a layover somewhere like Amsterdam or Paris.

The below is just a sample of all that’s available, of course, rooted in Fes, Marrakech and Essaouira, each of which has a unique vibe. Depending on your travel style and preferences, you may want to spend more time here, a little less time there. Everything can be customized. (For instance, if you want to spend more time in the desert, we can swap out one of the destinations.) Not to worry: connect with me, and I’ll tailor a dream itinerary specific to you. Regardless, Morocco is calling, and now is the perfect time to travel.

The quick and dirty:

Currency: د.م., Moroccan Dirham (MAD); even better, it's currently 10 to one for the US dollar, so conversions are super easy

Languages: Arabic and Amazigh, and many speak French as well as English

Airports: Casablanca Mohammed V International Airport (CMN), Fès–Saïss Airport (FEZ), Marrakesh Menara Airport (RAK)

Transportation: You can consider enlisting a guide and private transfers when visiting, which will help ensure you don’t get lost and provide helpful, fascinating context for all the sites you visit. But you can certainly travel here without one. Improved infrastructure is coming for city-to-city transportation. The 2030 World Cup will be here, and with it, the country is building a new high-speed rail.

Best time to visit: You can visit any time of year, and what your interests are (hiking, beach, desert exploring, cultural sites, etc.) will help determine the ideal time to go. For instance, the summer is hot, but it's also a great time to visit Morocco's beaches, where the sea helps temper the heat. January offers really nice & mild weather (plus fewer crowds), and the fall also tends to be quite lovely (and less crowded). Connect with me and we’ll work together to decide when the best time to visit is for you, based on your travel style. 

Ideal length of stay: Luckily, Morocco is conducive to trips of varying lengths. If you're only going to Marrakech, for example, you could totally plan a 3- or 4-day trip. If you're visiting multiple spots, 9-10 might be the sweet spot. It's all about maximizing the time you have with your bucket-list items. And no doubt, you'll be scheming a return visit before you leave the country.

Signature dishes: tagine (stew cooked in a clay vessel of the same name), chermoula (a mix of olive oil, herbs and spices), m’smen (buttery flatbread), sfinj (doughnuts often served with honey or sugar), kalinté (street-food bread made with chickpea flour)

Key phrases: as-salaam alaykum (hello), shokran (thank you), afak (please), yalla (let's go)

Dress code: flowy dresses and linen everything — and bring a shawl to cover your shoulders when visiting holy sites

Casablanca

Casablanca, Morocco’s commercial capital, is where you’ll fly into. If it’s your first time in the country, you likely won’t be spending much time here. But the city is bustling and fascinating, a reflection of the various cultures that have inhabited and influenced it over the years, including the Portuguese, Spanish and French. (The Spanish are responsible for its modern name, Casablanca, although the Portuguese originally called it Casa Branca before the Spanish settled in.) Here you’ll find a combination of both traditional and Art-Deco architecture, the remnant of the French occupation and colonial rule from the early to mid-20th century. 

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Where to stay in Casablanca

Four Seasons Hotel Casablanca: A solid landing pad after a long flight, with a beachfront location and five-star amenities. When you book Four Seasons with me, you’ll enjoy exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner amenities. I’ll be pleased to give you more details.

Mazagan Beach & Spa Resort: A sprawling, luxury haven about an hour outside of Casablanca. It's ideal for families and couples alike, with numerous activities from surfing and paddleboarding to laser tag and archery. Fora's VIP Reserve partner perks include welcome amenities, breakfast daily, an upgrade & extended check-in/out whenever possible.

Royal Mansour Casablanca: The luxury hotel brand has brought its signature five-star Moroccan charm to a new location in Casablanca. 

What to do in Casablanca

Your time in Casablanca is limited, but the Hassan II Mosque, Morocco’s largest, is a must. Wander around the downtown area to see the Art-Deco architecture. The city’s Marché Central (Central Market) is always abuzz and perfect for perusing produce, herbs, spices, crafts and more. The souks of the Habous neighborhood are also perfect for picking up authentic souvenirs. If time allows, head to the Museum of Moroccan Judaism, the Arab world’s only museum dedicated to Judaism, and Derb Ghallef, Morocco’s largest second-hand flea market.

Where to eat in Casablanca

For traditional Moroccan food served in an open-air setting, head to La Sqala, located in Casablanca’s historic medina. Also in the medina is the beautiful Dar Dada, where Moroccan cuisine is served in a tasteful riad setting. Rick's Café focuses on American and European dishes, with an ambiance inspired by the classic film Casablanca (live piano music, lavish balconies, ornate brass light fixtures). For something trendy and casual (but still delicious and well made), NKOA, just off of the Arab League Park is a great choice. For something truly special, I love the no-frills restaurant run by l’Association Solidarité Feminine, a non-profit that trains and employs single mothers in roles like cooking, baking and catering. 

Fes

Fes (or Fez), founded in the late eighth century, is Morocco’s spiritual and cultural capital. (It used to be the country’s official capital, but today Rabat holds that title.) Here is where to go to really immerse yourself into Morocco's vibrant, dynamic culture. Fes is among the country’s more traditional cities, where its rich tradition is front and center. Plus, its medina is among the world’s largest car-free urban zones, and is perfect for mindful wandering.

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Where to stay in Fes

Riad Fes: A special spot comprising six gorgeously appointed houses, where each space is completely unique, and where part of the charm lies in getting lost in its showstopping design. Book with me to receive $25 hotel credit, a welcome amenity, an upgrade and late check-out.

Hotel Sahrai: A contemporary option with a rooftop bar perfect for watching the sunset, glass of Moroccan wine in hand. (Although Hotel Sahrai is Riad Fes' sister property, the two properties have completely different vibes.) Fora’s SLH withIN partner perks include $50 hotel credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out. 

Palais Amani: A 21-room riad ideal for a more local, authentic experience.

What to do in Fes

Fes is particularly well known for its leather tanneries. Visit the 11th-century Chouara Tannery to observe the traditional craft. In fact, you can get a custom piece made here, and they'll deliver it to your hotel a few hours later. The University of al-Qarawiyyin, founded in 859 AD, is the world's oldest learning institution still in operation. Take in the college’s architecture decorated with elaborate calligraphy, and browse its historic library, where you’ll find centuries-old copies of the Qu’ran. For a stellar view, explore the Merenid Tombs, perched on a hilltop to the city’s north.

Where to eat in Fes

Fes’ street-food game is strong. Meander around the souks and markets and sample traditional fare prepared by local cooks and artisans. For traditional cooking with a gourmet twist, Riad Fes’ exceptional restaurant Gayza serves Moroccan dishes in an elegant, fun, colorful space. The plant-filled Ruined Garden is a delightful oasis for a nourishing lunch after a morning spent exploring, while the chic, modern hotspot Nur is perfect for an elaborate tasting menu in a sleek setting. The rooftop l’Amandier, at Palais Amani, marries French, Jewish, Arab, Moorish and Amazigh culinary traditions, and restaurant Eden, in the Palais Amani hotel, serves refined international cuisine with Moroccan and French influences.

Marrakech

Marrakech is home to a maze of charming courtyards, bustling souks, elegant palaces, intricate tile work and, of course, some of Morocco’s most famous hotels. The energy of this city is palpable and unending — in the best way (even more reason to visit a hammam here to unwind and reset).

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Where to stay in Marrakech

The Oberoi Marrakech: An opulent stunner with hand-crafted architecture, sweeping views of the Atlas Mountains and an impeccable attention to detail when it comes to hospitality. Book with me to receive a complimentary 50-minute massage for two, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Amanjena: Design-forward and stunning, softly boasting the tranquility you’d expect from Aman’s signature minimalist approach. When you book with me, you’ll get $100 food / beverage credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Royal Mansour Marrakech: A centrally located medina-within-a-medina that gives you a riad-esque experience with the amenities of a hotel. Book with me to snag Fora’s exclusive partner perks, including $100 food / beverage credit, complimentary roundtrip private airport transfers, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.

La Mamounia: One of Morocco’s most iconic properties, complete with indoor and outdoor pools, a small cinema and recently renovated opulence. Fora’s VIP partner perks include $100 food / beverage credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out.

Mandarin Oriental Marrakech: A 63-room retreat that checks all the boxes — beautiful rooms, a great common area and stunning views. When you book Mandarin Oriental with me, you’ll enjoy exclusive Fan Club preferred partner amenities. I’ll be pleased to give you more details.

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What to do in Marrakech

You’ll want to explore the souks, of course, but to avoid getting lost, enlist the help of an expert (which I can help you with, of course). The famed Jardin Majorelle (Majorelle Gardens), with its royal blue buildings and colorful botanical gardens is well worth a visit. In the 80s, the gardens were purchased by the fashion designers Yves Saint-Laurent and Pierre Bergé, and the gardens’ neighbor, the Yves Saint Laurent Museum, is also very much worth a visit. Pro tip: visit in the afternoon, when there are fewer crowds. Also within the Majorelle Gardens is the Pierre Bergé Museum of Berber Arts, which pays homage to the traditional Amazigh craftwork. The Anima botanical gardens are also lovely, and come with less crowds in general. Explore the bustling Djema El Fna square, where you’ll find local artisans selling their wares, fruit stands, traditional medicine outlets, fortune tellers and so much more. 

Where to eat in Marrakech

The leafy Le Jardin serves traditional Moroccan fare, alongside some international options, in a chicly renovated 16th-century building. Nomad Marrakech is cozy and casual, and champions local ingredients. Another cozy and casual — and bright and colorful — option is Bacha Café, perfect for a coffee and a pastry. Head to the dimly lit Dar Yacout for fine dining in an upscale atmosphere, and to La Terrasse des Épices for a fashionable rooftop moment (plus delectable locally sourced dishes). Enjoy another rooftop moment, complete with sushi and cocktails, at Kabana. At the Oberoi’s signature restaurant Rivayat, savor Indian food prepared by a Michelin-Starred chef. At Nama, located in Amanjena, five-star Japanese food is prepared with sustainably sourced, local ingredients. 

Atlas Mountains

The energy of Morocco's cities is a must, but so is the tranquility offered by the Atlas Mountains, home to a network of Amazigh villages. Amazigh is the local name for the Indigenous group of people whom we typically refer to as Berber. The word is not favored, however, because it's rooted in an ancient Greek word that means barbarian. If you’re into active travel, the Atlas Mountains will prove especially attractive. Here you can hike Mount Toubkal, North Africa’s highest point, and explore the numerous trails within Toubkal National Park. 

This region is the area most impacted by last year's earthquake. Many of the hotels have reopened now, but some are still rebuilding. Whether you're staying for an extended amount of time (highly recommend) or doing a day trip (totally doable; a hike & Amazigh tea is the best day), visiting is one of the most important ways we can help them to rebuild.

Essaouira

This beachside city has been inhabited since ancient times, but the Portuguese are credited with establishing the official town when they built a fort there in the early 1500s. Essaouira is a bucket-list destination for windsurfers and kitesurfers. But if watersports aren’t your thing, the beaches are also lovely for lounging. Its laid-back, bohemian vibe makes it the perfect place to end your vacation. Be sure to pick up some local argan oil from a local women's co-op. This is a great way to help close the gender gap in Morocco. Handmade crafts made out of rare thuya wood also make special souvenirs.

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Where to stay in Essaouira

Heure Bleue Palais: A boutique gem (and former home) with 33 rooms, traditional Moroccan design, a beautiful riad-style garden and approachable rates. Book with me to receive Relais & Châteaux partner perks, including daily breakfast and a VIP welcome.

What to do in Essaouira

In between beach time, explore Essaouira’s eclectic array of art galleries, including Le Real Mogador, a former mansion displaying the work of Moroccan artists, and Galerie la Kabash, a three-story hub with a collection of both local and international pieces, plus furniture, sculpture, pottery, carpets and more. In Essaouira’s Jewish quarter, you’ll find Bayt Dakira, a museum that highlights the coexistence of Jews and Muslims in the area. 

Where to eat in Essaouira

Dar Baba is fun and lively, with a Mediterranean fusion menu and colorful environs, while La Clé de Voûte is charming and casual. Save room for a wine tasting at Le Domaine du Val d'Argan winery, which uses stainless steel fermentation to produce over 300,000 bottles of organic wine. And the restaurants at Heure Bleue Palais are some of the best in town: the elegant Salon Oriental is the hotel’s fine-dining restaurant, the rooftop Terrace Grill is perfect for a poolside lunch and the handsome English Lounge is a must for a cocktail nightcap by the fire. La Table Madada serves fresh seafood and a fusion of Moroccan and Mediterraneans fare, while Caravane Café’s menu focuses on international cuisine (with seafood and vegetarian options), and is served in a fun, eclectically decorated setting.

This may be information overload, but that's where I come in. Above is just a taste of all that Morocco offers. Connect with me for a tailored trip. I'll work to understand your vibe and what you're after, and design your dream Morocco getaway, complete with VIP perks and priority status at the country's best hotels.

Safe or Sorry? How Allowing Kids to Explore Builds True Safety

Matt and I talk a lot about safety, especially in terms of Wolf. 

Besides loving him, our main job is to keep him safe as we nurture him into adulthood. But what does that really mean?

Sure, some of it is obvious. We provide secure shelter, car seats when we drive, and hold his hand across streets. 

But what about letting him climb around on rocks? Or run really fast on a hard surface…the kind that would skin up his knees and elbows if he fell? Or talk to strangers?

I think these decisions are grayer and worth thinking about.

Our approach has been to allow him to experience some risk. The kind we hope will develop his intuition, judgment, and situational awareness. 

To that end, we actively encourage him to explore the outdoors. 

While he does, we try to use 'Don't do that!' and ‘Be careful!' sparingly - only when he really needs to watch it. 

More often, we tell him the potential consequences and what he could do to be safer. Things like, 'You can slide down that gravelly hill if you want, but if you don't change into pants your legs may get cut up.'

At that point, we usually let him decide. If he wants to do it anyway, we advise him on how to do it more safely - like, "Stick to the side of the path so you can grab a root if you start going too fast."

There are several upsides we've seen from this approach. 

For one, he's become very agile for a four-year old. But beyond that, he's developing his own sense of risk and natural consequences. And probably just as important he gets to have a little agency over his life. Kids don't get much of that.

I can't speak for kids broadly, but Wolf is adventurous without being particularly kamikaze. Because of that, when we're playing outside most of our direction to him is along the lines of "Stay where we can see you" or "Now put the toad back where you found him."

Still, we've sometimes gotten side-eye from other parents.

Earlier this spring at the zoo, he climbed up a boulder embankment that was 8 or 9 feet high. He sat at the top, cheerfully shouting hello at everyone who passed. Almost every kid who came by - probably a dozen - asked their parents if they could climb up it, too. None were allowed.

I think a decision like that comes down to a risk/reward ratio that is different in every parent’s mind. Having seen Wolf climb up many rocks and boulders, the embankment at the zoo looked solidly within his ability. And it was.

But I’m not judging the parents who said no. You get good at climbing by climbing, and they may have accurately gauged the boulders as beyond what their kids could safely manage. Or maybe they just had animals they wanted to see without a big holdup for climbing rocks. 

I get a little saltier when people intervene directly with Wolf. 

This happened right before we left Kansas City. We went to a restaurant that hosts a weekly outdoor music and wine night. Its patio area has a shallow water feature surrounded by landscaping boulders. 

Appropriately, Wolf was more interested in exploring water and boulders than watching adults drink wine and listen to soft rock covers.

When he was up on the boulders - maybe eighteen inches off the ground - someone in our group repeatedly told him, “Get down!" and "You’ll crack your head open!” But when he dropped down to his belly to look more closely at the (very shallow) water feature, the waitress immediately shooed him away. It's hard to be a kid sometimes.

Besides protecting Wolf from himself, we also want to keep him safe from the bad apples of the world.

We get stopped with curious questions about our truck literally every day. Usually multiple times. So far, these have been 100% friendly conversations with people curious about our truck and what we’re doing. 

Wolf often steps in to answer their questions himself: 

“The truck is an LMTV” 

“Our dog is a Rhodesian Ridgeback. His name is Casey. I named him.” 

“You can follow us on our blog. It’s Kid Dog Travel.”

People usually look a little surprised when he pipes up. Then, most will respond and engage him in a little conversation.

What about "stranger danger", then?

I have several concerns about teaching kids “stranger danger”. First, most of us contradict it all the time by chit chatting with people we obviously don’t know. Second, how will kids ever develop good judgment if they're only supposed to interact with familiar people? Third, squelching kids' natural confidence with fear may actually make them more vulnerable to bad people. And lastly, most people are really pretty nice. It's kind of sad and limiting to imply otherwise to kids.

Rather than telling Wolf not to talk to strangers, we want him to learn to interact with them safely. For now, those interactions include our supervision. But our long-term goal is for him to develop his own radar so that he grows into an adolescent, teenager, and adult who makes good choices.

That process very much involves him interacting with unfamiliar people, including sometimes in ways that aren’t positive. This came up last week when Matt and Wolf took our puppy to a dog park in downtown Salt Lake City. 

It turned out to be a bleak, dog-less hangout for junkies and the homeless. People were openly dealing drugs. 

They quickly left, and Matt later asked Wolf what he had thought about the park. 

It was scary, Wolf said. 

That prompted a discussion about what made it feel scary, and why they had left so fast. 

Similarly, when we have good interactions with people we talk about those, too - and what we liked about them. 

If Wolf ever gets separated from us, I think he’s had enough positive encounters with strangers to do what we’ve taught him to do. He’s supposed to pick a grownup that looks like a mom or a grandma and ask them to call us (he knows our phone numbers). 

We intentionally did not tell him to look for a police officer. It probably depends on where you live, but most places we go don’t have uniformed police officers milling around where a kid could easily find them. 

And in trying to find a cop, he might inadvertently approach a security guard. While I'm sure most are fine individually, as a group they're minimally screened, barely trained, and mostly male - definitely not who we want Wolf seeking out for help.

Not only are women collectively far, far less violent than men, choosing who helps you  is almost always safer than waiting for someone to step in. {You can read much more on this subject in Gavin de Becker’s excellent book, Protecting the Gift.}

For me, the bottom line is that we do a lot of things that are supposed to keep kids safe. 

We tell them not to climb high, run fast, or talk to strangers - all while giving them well-intended but vague warnings to ‘Be careful!'. This sends the message that the world is scary without actually preparing kids to interact safely within it. 

Safety is never guaranteed to any of us, but we think Wolf's best chance of achieving it will come through an ongoing dialogue. One about which risks are worth taking, and which risks - and people - he should probably walk away from. 

Meanwhile, we will keep climbing, running, exploring, and yes - talking to strangers.